I recently found out i was 30weeks pregnant and am concidering adoption any advice?

Question

one of the main reason i am concidering this is that i was raped but i havent told any one about this and i dont wish to tell any one. my only concern is that i dont know what to tell the social worker about the father has she has already started asking questions and i dont know what to say. the pregnancy came has a shock has i had no idea until i went for a routine appointment at the drs. im 100% sure that im making the right choice and i just find it difficult when people start asking questions about the father

Answer 1

We are so sorry to hear what you have gone through. you must know that what was done to you is in no way a reflection on you. You can certainly speak to your social worker and tell the truth. There are plenty of adoptive couples who are praying for a baby to love. We are a loving, active and happy married couple with two beautiful kitties who live in Southeastern Michigan. We are home study approved waiting to adopt a newborn to love and cherish for the rest of our lives. We do not have any children, and are praying that our dream of being parents becomes a reality.

We live near greatest schools, parks and libraries.  We love to be outdoors, camping in our travel trailer, walking the beaches and swimming in lakes, spending happy times with our families and making memories at home. We look forward to sharing all of these wonderful things with a child.

Please visit our website www.MostLovingFamily.com, where you will learn more about us, read our birth mother letter and see our slideshow.  Our parent profile is also at http://www.parentprofiles.com/profiles/db26802.html

We hope to hear from you and wish you peace in your heart and mind as you make your decision.

Ann and Eric