I saw my cousins kissing?

Question

Okay, I saw my Cousin S and cousin J kissing -Like make-out session looking like soon s**t show- But is it wrong? I mean I'm the one who connects them (like my moms side nephew, and my dad's side nephew.) (Yes they were boys, one is 17 the other 15)

They're not blood related I guess, but I know if I tell my family, they will freak out since they already don't like each other, and dad's side hates g**s (my dad's side kinda hates my guts, cept' Cousin J and his parents)

I mean, I down with it I adore g**s and adore my cousin but we grew up together, so its weird.....Should I confront them? Should I tell my family?

Answer 1

don't confront them, join in

i remember i thought my cousin was really cute

lol

Answer 2

I don't think you should tell. If it is really bothering you, talk to the 2 boys. Tell them how you feel. I personally wouldn't even acknowledge

it. If they are ready to tell, then it's their choice.

Answer 3

i think you should leave their business to themselves. sure, talk to them about it, but before getting the parentals involved, think about how theyd take it. would you want your secret spilled to your parents before you figured out a way to let them into it gently?

Answer 4

No point in telling your family. Your cousins would just be pissed at you probably. It would just create pointless drama. And what would you say if you confronted your cousins? Do you just want them to know that you saw them making out?

Answer 5

talk to them not your family, my parent sides are like that too, i would confront the cousins.

Answer 6

they r not really cousins so u made it sound worse then it is it is gross but hey to each there own not anyones buiesness but theres

Answer 7

yeah thats gross

Answer 8

of course you shouldn't tell

it's not even gross, after all they're NOT related

it's their business, just try to be understanding

they obviously like each other

Answer 9

umm just leave it

there teens right noww, they will sort it out themself

its normal to wanna try something new...i guess just curious

Answer 10

Well, can they really help if they like each other? I mean, chill out, it's not as if they control it. No, don't tell on them. You don't want to do anything that might change yours or their lives forever.

Answer 11

THAT SUCKS (literally i bet they suck)

Answer 12

Maybe you could tell them you saw and try to be supportive of them, although they should maybe each find a partner who isn't family!! But it could be helpful for them to have someone on their side about their sexuality if you would be willing to stick up for them.

Answer 13

i say just leave them alone. if you know that your family is going to be against it then i think you should leave them to liv their own live. they are obviously happy with what they are doing and how they live their lives so good for them. if they wanted someone to know then they could tell them, its not yor place to say

Answer 14

um yes thats a little creepy but since they are g*y there is no chance of birth defects and there is no blood relation so i guess its not that bad just creepy for you. as far as the homophobia on one side, i wouldn't tell your family it will only cause trouble

Answer 15

You might as well join in. Your family's already screwed up.

Answer 16

Stay out of it.  Be there if they ask but otherwise don't get involved.  This is their decision not yours.  You did nothing wrong by introducing them to each other and if they hit it off than that's fine.  They will have to deal with the family, not you.

Answer 17

wow

close family

Answer 18

No, keep it to yourself.  It will create drama if you do tell someone.  It's fine.  It's fine.  Cousin S and cousin J are doing nothing wrong.

Answer 19

Don't tell your family...but i don't think its right also for them to like each other

first,they are both guys

second, they are cousins...

but don't confront them or anything,they would tell the family if they are ready,don't mix oil with fire..if you love them

Answer 20

have your ever heard of kissing cousins, just kidding, anyways,Do not tell your family,  it is not in your place to out your cousins for being g*y or kissing cousins. You could confront them and ask them whats up but do not be all judgemental.  

Answer 21

confront them but dont tell your parents.

Answer 22

pretty gross if you ask me lol

Answer 23

Does your family tree fork or does it go straight up?

Answer 24

ask the one your closer to what was going on

Answer 25

They are young and experimenting, nothing else. It's not like they are getting married. I wouldn't trip over it at all. NO don't tell your family, that would be really harsh of you and betray any amount of trust they had in you. If you want to ask them about it it would depend on your relationship with them, they may blush and probably deny it. How open are you with each other. Kissing a guy once in high school doesn't make someone g*y. It makes them open minded.  

Answer 26

Jump in and make it a 3some

Answer 27

i think you should let them know and that you feel uncomfortable

Answer 28

WOW inbreeding ask them y confront them  

Answer 29

i think it's gross, but dont tell on them, its their buisiness

Answer 30

Talk to them about it but they arent cousins so to them its not a big deal. It their secret let them keep it.

Answer 31

Definitely don't out them, that would be bad.

Umm, I don't know what to tell you to be honest. At first I thought you were talking about a boy and girl, which is bad because of birth defect babies. I guess relation doesn't really matter if you're g*y? I have no idea.

It's not your responsibility, I say let it run it's own course, but it wouldn't be good to tell your family. If you need to talk about it, tell friends (preferably who aren't that close with your family).