I screwed up BIG time...??? now what?

Question

there is a guy at my school who everytime used to walk by him or whatever would always stops whatever he is doing and just stare at me and would watch me have conversations with people. i always ignore him when he stares,which i think was a huge mistake on my part.i like pretend he doesnt' exist b/c i am so terrible when it comes to guys i like. last week i was walking out of class and he was walking right in front of me. he was looking behind to see if his friend was coming out, then i think he saw me..he kinda slouches his posture so then all of a sudden he stood up really straight like he was trying to be taller or something right after he saw me behind him?? i think that was a sign he liked me but i ALWAYS ignore him. im so weird around guys i like.i think he has given up on me.what do i do? im so pissed at myself. we never talk.im kinda sad now. im not feeling a connection and he never looks at me anymore.now what?

the only time we ever talked was for a project last year.

Answer 1

Okay, start by smiling at him when you see him. Say "hi" and be nice. Then you can move on to talking to him more. Guys only need a little encouragement. I once got a boyfriend merely by looking up and smiling at a guy passing by. I wasn't even meaning to flirt.

Answer 2

well sorry about this situation, it sucks. What you need to do because he may have moved on, go talk to him, it'll be a step up from ignoring him. Ask him for a piece of paper or pencil. Anything. He might like you again and even more and it'll be confusing for him and fun for you. I recomend you try an actual conversation withhim, you like him and he likes you. To make it easier pretend like you don't like him but theres nthimg wrong with flirting. A while ago he put himself out there to you and got ignored. Its not your fault, just a small mistake. Hurry and fix it, it would really suck if he moved on.

Answer 3

Don’t beat yourself up about it. Just find the courage to speak to him next time you see him. Open up a line of communications with him and start seeing what the two of you have in common, and how you can maybe spend some time together. Trust me; you’re not the only one who does that. I do it all the time. It’s a guy I like now that I pretend like I don’t see him, knowing dam well I try to position myself to be near him on the elevator, or sit next to him at meetings. But I do try to strike up small talk with him when ever it’s just he and I in the hallways or standing in the break room at work. Every woman knows when a man likes her, it’s just that fear or rejection that keeps us (well, most of us) from taking it further. Talk to him! Show him that you’re interested. And if he’s not fck it! Move on and find someone who is.

Answer 4

It seems to me that you are interested in him. Go hang out with him for awhile or something. All I can say is if you don't do this, you can end up regretting for the rest of your life (Ok, maybe its not that big of a deal, but I like to put this way to encourage you to go for it)

Good luck!

Answer 5

So what's stopping you from going up and talking with him...you keep saying how you screwed up you are...well fix the situation...go talk to him!  You have absolutely NOTHING to lose; you may gain a great friend or even more.

Get some guts and go do it!

Answer 6

just go and talk

Answer 7

Girl its good to ignore someone for 2 reasons 1. if you dont like the person or 2. you like the person but you're playing hard to get.  i think if you like that person try talking to him a lil engage in conversations here and there if he's trying to get to know you and you're blowing him of best chances is that he's given up on you. if you like him stop blowing him off get to know him it'll work out give the guy a chance if you guys don't date maybe you guys can be real good friends if you dont gain a boyfriend you probably will gain a friend you never know unless you talk to him so go get it girl