I secreatly tried on my roomates chiffon cocktail dress and felt and looked silly and weak! Is this how women?

Question

Here is kind of what the dress looks like!

Hey this girl is stylish!

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/2999696/0~2376776~2374327~2374331~6014146?mediumthumbnail=Y&origin=category&searchtype=&pbo=6014146&P=2

Answer 1

well, why'd u try the dress on in the first place? does she know your sneaking into her closet?!

Answer 2

I hope she doesn't frequent this web site because if she ever found out, she would ask for a "runway show" of all her outfits, LOL

Answer 3

I think it is a question of personal preference and of the ideas you associate with these behaviours.

I don't feel weak or silly in a dress, I feel hot and powerful, but not all women experience this. I also prefer to wear pants because they're more practical.

So what you've learned here is that you associate women's clothing and behaviours with feeling weak and that you don't enjoy wearing them. But it's really personal to each.

Congratulations on being open-minded enough to try it.

Answer 4

No, most women don't fel silly in dresses. You felt that way becuase you've internalized the rule that dresses are for females, and you're not female.

Answer 5

Any woman would feel silly in a chiffon cocktail dress. I think you live with a transvestite and maybe want to be one too.

Answer 6

its lovely dress

Answer 7

Women don't own chiffon cocktail dresses any more, Sister. Only drag queens, as you well know.

Answer 8

When I put on a dress I don't feel weak. I feel sexually liberated when my -Hot spot? is touched with a tingly breeze:)

Answer 9

Many men try that but feel foolish but some men are cross dressers and like wearing woman's clothes. & No women don't feel the same way. There is a time for Jeans and slacks and a time to get dressed up. It's not the same as a man cross dressing.

Answer 10

so were you actually IN the closet when you got dreesed up like that and if so, that would indeed mean that you were a "closet cross-dresser" Or were you in the living room?

Answer 11

thats kinda weird

Answer 12

Don't worry about it.  10% of all male crossdress sometime in there lives.  I do..

Answer 13

Uhmm. Why would you be trying on a girls dress?

Woman are suppose to feel s**y not silly. That dress was probably not your colour :P

And you probably don't know how to walk in heels, and your hands can't be slopply wafting around you, they have to be locked in place, naturally.

Answer 14

Ok now go try something else that is girly. Try a pair of hipster girls jeans and a pair of boots. And why not let your roomy help you out. Yes she will laugh, but it will be a laugh of joy and delight. Just wait until she helps you with makeup. That is when you will be hooked.

Answer 15

lol that's so cute. I bet if your roomy was there, she would've taken so many pix of you and not minded at all. You can actually pose and goof around with her why not? You already got a jist of how it feels. And yes, some females who prefer to wear pants all the time and do wear a dress for the first time do feel silly. My sister is like that, she wore a dress for the first time since she was like 5, and I did not hear her not complain once about how stupid she felt lol And don't get me started on the heels...they were like half an inch and she was slouching around. So wow, you actually tried on heels heels lol Good for you. Have fun!

Answer 16

No, I just get annoyed that I can't walk as fast as I want in the heels (they get really sore really quick too and then I can't dance or walk home). I sometimes also get embarrassed when men start checking me out.

Answer 17

Still obessing on your cross dressing fantasies?  My goodness you really don't have a life do you?

Answer 18

haha. this just made me laugh. why are you trying on girly clothes?

Answer 19

Well, they profess to having fragile and impressionable self esteem, I suppose you got a glimpse of that.