I seem to hate all people, what should I do?

Question

Every person I meet (practically) has so many problems and it makes me absolutely sick! I can't stand it. So many posers and losers who are absolutely ignorant and mindless. But I want to like these people. Because I know in the end, the more people i treat fairly the more friends i will have. I'm not all about having tons of friends. But i know there are some people in this world that would respect me for who I am if I could just treat more people with respect. And I also believe more girls would be attracted to me if I weren't such a un-caring d**k to a lot of people. But honestly, it's what most people are these days. At least the people I'm surrounded by. Please help.

Answer 1

It is hard to weed out the whackos these days. I tell you though do not give up on humanity or people. You do have quite a few that are very respectful and worthy to make their acquaintance. Just keep weeding em out.

Answer 2

Start by always respecting everyone.  No exceptions.

Respect a hero for their bravery and contribution.

Respect a child for their innocence and human nature.

Respect a psychopath by building and staffing facilities for the criminally insane.

Respect yourself by not ending up in one.

Answer 3

I understand exactly how you feel, but since we are only going to live one life, we have to make the best of everything, and in order for us to do that, you should try and have good relationships with everyone you meet. if you don't like someone, don't fake it just don't talk to them. just try and give everyone a chance before they start to bother you. I'm sure we aren't the only ones who feel this way, but I know it feels good to be negative and just stay away from new people, but if you never spend time with them, you will never get to know them

Answer 4

So what exactly is the problem?

That's a normal part of growing up.  Most people really are a waste of oxygen.

Consider it to be a game.  Pretend to like the idiots, you'll get a lot more out of them.

Answer 5

Well hey who said we had to like every person we meet? If you really can't stand them that much maybe find a way to meet new people :) Or try your best to get along with them maybe you'll find something about them you actually like.

Answer 6

Maybe you answered your own question. Nobody can say they like everyone, they just attempt to get along with everyone.

Answer 7

Just go to bed tonight and try to imagine as if you had one last day to live. Tomorrow morning, live your life to the fullest and if you are religious remember that treating people well is the ticket to salvation. Smile at everyone and just ignore their flaws. Everyone has flaws, problems, and annoying little things about them, but you must find beauty in that, because that's what makes life INTERESTING!

Good luck.

Answer 8

There are all kinds of people. You have your attention-whores, followers, jerks, selfish people and all kinds in between. You'll have to somehow try to be fair to people and like them for who they are. I can sort of tell how you are feeling right now. I don't hate all people but their are some kinds of people I want nothing to do with. There are a lot of "good" people out there. Just have patience.