I self harm.. went 24 days w/out and started again..what can i do to stop this again?

Question

i cut cause my bf dumped me then asked my friend out in front of my face and then nearly having s*x in front of me.. took it reallllly badly

Answer 1

You might try talking to your parents or parental care givers.  Talk to your minister.  Make an appointment and keep it, with a therapist.  Don't be afraid to reach out for help, keep asking until you get the help you need.

All the Best

Answer 2

Well you went a whole 24days without doing it - what helped you stop then?  Were you happier?  Because you should think about how much of a lucky escape you've made from a friend and bf like that - you don't need people who would do something like that to you.

I went to my doctor for help - she referred me on to a specialist and it really did change my life.  Remember, no-one needs to know why you're going - could be a gyn problem for all anyone knows!  

Feel free to email me if you ever want a chat etc.  Chin up - you're better off without these folk in your world.

xx  

Answer 3

Ask yourself if either one of them is really worth harming yourself over.