I sense another restless night ahead?

Question

How can I emotionally detach myself from a girl who's been my friend for 4/5 of my life.three years ago I developed feelings for her, hid them and now I haven't seen or heard from her since febuary.

for some reason I'm too afraid to call her.

I'm tired of spending a restless hour willing myself to dispell my fear and call her only to wake up and ignore the night.

I either want to confront my fears and call her as a friend for now

or forget it all.I'm done. And I dont want to forget but if I can't call I don want to tear myself apart.help please.

IS WHAT IVE POSTED BEFORE

and it still stands. Every night .Every ****ing night im up till 2-4 am thinking about her.And it doesnt stop there. I sit up in bed and stair outside and just ... think and it never ends. Its been like that since april. It was less during the school year because I forced myself asleep.

And im SICK AND TIRED of it.

I dont know what to do,Talk to her,talk to someone,leave it in,forget about it. Its maddening.

Answer 1

your stupid

Answer 2

TALK TO HER!!!

Answer 3

I can only suggest that you focus on the positives and not the negatives.

You clearly have many strong feelings for her & you have missed her very much.

Decide whether or not the feelings are strong enough for you to do something about it and how great is the risk that if you do nothing you might regret it for the rest of your life.

If you decide to contact her you could start by saying "Hi, I have been wondering how you are  and what you are doing these days" and see where that takes you. If she has feelings for you in return it should be a very well worthwhile exercise!

With my very best wishes for both your futures. UK