I simply feel confused?

Question

To make this long story short, I have this guy friend, and he means so much to me. He was my crying shoulder, an advice giver, and the best boy I've ever met. I went through a tough time with my first bf, and he was there for me until i felt better. somewhere along the time, I told him I liked him, and then how I love him. He didn't feel the same way, so I decided to move on. I stopped talking to him for 4 months, I thought I would feel better, but I still don't. I started to talk to him recently, and I would want to cry when he would talk to me, but he didn't do anything AT ALL. this goes for music too. the songs he showed me, now are my worst enemies, I would cry so hard everytime I would listen to them. what is wrong with me, my friends done nothing wrong, but yet I feel like crying so suddenly when he talks :(

Answer 1

You really put yourself out there when you told him you loved him, and he didn't return the feelings. It's totally normal to be upset about that.

If you still want to maintain a relationship with him as a friend you have to begin to move on, even if it's only taking baby steps each day. If you don't feel you can handle being around him then you should spare you and him the pain and frustration and stop talking to him.  

Answer 2

go to a therapist or someething.

lots of girls have this problem.

obviously, he isn't the right guy for you.

its really hard when a guy and a girl are friends

and one wants to be something more.

maybe try to find a guy that makes you more

happy!!! =)

Answer 3

awww, he sounds like the best guy friend ever!

maybe you shouldn't have stopped talking to

him, when he told you that he didn't feel the same way.

maybe, he thought that if he liked you,

it would ruin your relationship.

and obviously you really care about him.