I start 8th grade in about one week and I want to be more known and less akward?

Question

I'm a 13 year old male. Does anybody know what I should wear or how I can learn to be better known in the girl area?

Answer 1

I haven't been in 8th grade in 13 years, so I couldn't give you specifics, but see what the guys that have girlfriends wear or act like. If they have long hair, wear Abercrombie, and act a certain way, then you could try that. I am not trying to tell you to not be yourself, though. Just take tips from the guys that are where you'd like to be.  

Answer 2

You know what the ladies REALLY want in a guy? They all ask "How come there are no really nice guys?" - You've got to be a really nice guy. Go out of your way to make sure that the loner doesn't feel totally left out. Help out with the special need kids. Hold doors open for people, and smile a lot. Compliment the ladies on what they're wearing - even the ugly girls. Be nice to everyone - not just the people it's easy to be nice to - and you'll get noticed. Good luck!

Answer 3

just be yourself!  girls are attracted to boys who don't try to be anything but themselves and that are courteous and respectful to them

Answer 4

Just don't try too hard.

Answer 5

To be better in the girl area, you need to stop asking questions like this.  You're already trying to hard, by asking how you should dress and how you should act.  Like everybody else said be yourself.

Answer 6

Haha! Yes, because you should be totally dating and hanging out with girls in your eighth year... how about you focus on your studies, considering that is what school is all about, and focus less on the people around you, considering you will probably never see them again after you graduate. You think you social life is important, but think about it... how is your social life going to help you in your millionaire career? How are those people seriously going to influence what job you get... the obvious answer is they won't because what you learn in your eighth year and any other year is what will determine what you are going to do.

Sorry for the long lecture, but school, especially in the americas, seems to be turned into a social fair more than a learning environment....

Answer 7

Girls like guys that just act like themselves! Dont change for other people

Answer 8

middle school is hard.

i really hated it.

you really just have to be attractive.

if your not girls arent really gonna like you.

Answer 9

Just be your self and dress like you not someone your not. It will pay but you probably won't become popular, just well like by peers!  

Answer 10

Just be outgoing and yourself, dont be afraid of anyone elses opinions and just go for it. Im sure you will do fine!

Answer 11

ok as a guy that's good with the ladies ; ) lol here's some tips? lol

1.) no girls have feelings too and if they seem upset ask whats wrong and try to help or just be there to talk to them or be there for them.

2.) you don't necessarily have to be "hot" for girls to like you, you just have to have a good personality.

3.) always be nice.

4.) if your funny be funny.

5.) complement them.

6.) don't act shy around them if you are, and don't try to be to cool, or act like your all that.

7.) take showers regularly....lol

8.) don't be a slob, have good habbits.

9.) don't act to interested ; ) lol.

10.) uhm....number 10 if a girl asks if your pretty tell the truth. Or if a girl asks who you think is pretty say uhm idk ask me ppl and i'll say yes or no....then usually the girl will tell so and so u think she's pretty....and she'll be flatured and talk to you and be like so you think i'm pretty? and just say ya lol.....

We'll help this works for ya....number 10 is one of the most important steps lol.....mark me best answer lol.....and good luck.

Answer 12

Wear normal clothes? Nobody really dresses up for school but at the same time don't look like you just got up from bed.

& "the girl area", girls like guys who are confident about themselves and are outspoken(in a good way). But at the same time don't look stuck - up.

&& oh yeah, be yourself! =)

gd luck!

Answer 13

im a 13 year old girl and i think that you should act like yourself but dont be a jerk cause my friends and i hate that and dont wear stuff that your not sure about cause you'll just feel akward and act stupid :) good  luck  

Answer 14

wear clothes you feel comfy in, be yourself...and as far as the girls it depends on what kind of girls your going after,but about 90% of all girls like a confident guy so even if you feel awkward hide it as best as you can!! good luck!!

Answer 15

well,if you make friends with a guy that makes a lot of girls laugh,you will be well known but I suggest that is a bad idea cuz then you'll be using him which I dont like people to do.

Answer 16

haha honestly, from a girls perspective, just honestly and truly be yoruself... if youre not, you'll attract the ppl who u dont really have anything in common with, so dress and be yourself BUT what could help is: ask girls questions... dont be stalkerish about it, but if you want a convo, ask questions to keep it moving... make sure she is into the conversation and asking questions too, example: ''hey whats your name?'' im emily, whats your name? ''my name is (ex eric). u do anything this weekend?'' and blah blah so just ask about their day, classes, sports, music, and you'll make friends, and eventually maybe even fidn a girl. dont rush it, it's just MS. good luck, remember, middle shool is the most awkward age for anyone, and im 110% sure that everyone is just as insecure and awkward as you are, so dont feel left out. oh and btw.... mature girls dont fall for jerks. dont be an ***. plus, that rep could follow in HS, and that wouldnt be good. good luck! =]

Answer 17

Dont change! Girls like guys that dont change for anyone. Just relax around girls, make jokes, laugh alot, and be outgoing!

Answer 18

these are all lies ur hearing girls like guys who arnt afraid to get in to trouble who treat them like they don't matter a rule breaker and very social women like men who are nice and courteous and well mannered so don't be ur self it wont work if u want to be with the hotties  

Answer 19

Where a white button up shirt and baggy skinny jeans <3. Just become friends with a girl and things should go smoothly from there !!  

Answer 20

?Join clubs and classes that will elevate your personal growth.

Then be self confident and be a all-round sports nut be at all games

baseball basketball and football games  I was in school government

It opened me up to allot of new experiences and I took allot of academic classes like chemistry,physics and chess club and

athletes and boosters club and drama club I was very shy

the drama made me talk to crowds in public and writing course

to learn to write books and letters and to use proper writing skills

for business then I took a fun class called family life which learned me to balance a check book how to get a checking account with high payout interest and low fees. banking and income tax forms how to fill out the income taxes for state and federal. And then some menial

jobs skills like auto shop and wood shop and metal shop even took

cooking and typing had to learn cause of the computer to increase

keystroke times to write semester papers. Term papers all needed to be typed and double spaced. try it you'll like the new classes.

Answer 21

be yourself if she doesn't like you for who you are she doesn't deserve you!!!!