I still need some help well allot of help i still cant talk to girls

Question

i still need help every time i talk to girls my mind just goes blank and i cant say anything can anyone help

Answer 1

dude i was the same way till i made my secret words i wrote lines on my arm and if i froze upi just read whats on my  arm i would have things like waz up or hey ohh and dont do the cool thing like talk all differnt but i swear it works and its funny  i  wrote on my arm wats up said it to a girl she awnswerd and the last thing on my arm waz wanna hang later i read it not thinking wat i waz doing but she said yeah then later when we hung out i told her that i wrote on my arm she laugh so hard but we went out and i got a kiss that day ohh yeah

ohhh im 13

Answer 2

its cute. some girls really like shy guys.

when you see a girl you could be interested in, go up and just ask her about what she likes to do and if you have stuff in common, then you can go onand  its an instant conversation.

just try your best and be yourself.

when you find the right one you'll be able to talk no problem, it just takes some practice.

Answer 3

i think that it's cute when a guy is shy! I think that the best thing for you to do would be to find something that the both of you are interested in and talk about it. It would make things a whole lot easier because whenever you cant think of anything, she's gonna bring up something. One more thing, you can practice carrying on a conversation with one of your friends and pretend that he/she is a girl that you like.

Answer 4

i think that's cute

but if you want to get rid of that habit gain some self confidence and stop being self conscious  

Answer 5

I don't like it when a guy is trying to make himself a hero to impress me. Just be you, be your nature. Don't think about how many mistakes you are going to make. Just talk and let your true words come out. Good girls will understand what you mean, and will want you to be their friend. Other bad ones will think bad about you. Just lose the losers. What most of guys like about me, is that i don't act someone else. Others are mad because i'm not doing what they want and to go ..you know dirty with them!  

Answer 6

umm.

in my opinion some girls find being shy cute. prolly because they feel that you really want to be interested but your just to nervous.

and remember there probably nervous aswell.

but if you want to practice try texting of talking online you'll fell safer talking because they cant see your emotions and you have time to think. hope i helped :]

Answer 7

Girls love compliments; we like it when a guy tells us we look good.

Always approach the girl first.

When you start a conversation, try using a compliment as your opening line, like "hey (name)! You looked really good last night at that party."

And then just let the conversation flow naturally. Make eye contact.

And if you start getting nervous, just tell yourself to go out on a limb! The worst way it could end is if she has to leave.

Answer 8

well thnk of a "script" or something to say nd focuson that once u start uits like a train u pik up speed nd just charge ahead! =]

Answer 9

don't get so intimidated...

#1 --think that she is human --the same as you.

#2 --find something around her or on her that you can comment on..the easiest would be her appearance..like ," hey you look good today"

#3 --think that she is one of your guy buddy...ask if she likes Computer games or stuff that you guys do.. if not then move on to the next thing you can see...and comment on that...(chances are, she'll start talking more than you..that'll give you time to gather thoughts and be ready just in case she asks you to talk too..)

#4 -- BREATHE! don't forget to BREATHE!!!

#5 --don't expect too much..if you talk to her and you get shot down...she's just probably  s****....go waste time on other nice girls...