I talk in my sleep a lot (or so my husband says), and I'm afraid that I will accidentally talk about my ex while I'm sleeping/dreaming.
I was with my ex for 3 years, and we had "broken up" many time during the last two years.
Finally he did something so stupid, that I had to let go.
A few months later, my friend from work, whom I got along with very well, asked me to marry him...
After thinking about it for a few days, I decided "why not?"
We got married the next week...
A few months later I found out my ex had just started working where I work (coincidence?) and now I see him all the time.
A friend, who knew us both when we were together told me that he told her he had been heartbroken when he found out I'd gotten married, especially so quickly after the breakup...
A few months after that, there were rumors going around that he was dating another girl from work... One that was 12 years older than him, and has a bit of a reputation of intentionally getting pregnant...
While I was shocked, I tried to not give it much though...
I actually do love my husband, and I'm very happy with him...
Well, a few months after THAT, we all found out that she's pregnant (imagine that!) and it *might* be his (he thinks she might have cheated on him, but really...)
Having have been with him for three years, I know how terrified of accidentally getting someone pregnant, because he used to be so paranoid, he used to have me take birthcontrol, and he would either wear a condom as well, or pull out...
So I KNOW he though he was being careful. I don't know how she did it, but now everyone's waiting to know whether or not it's his...
Well, lately, before falling asleep, I find myself thinking about how it was when I was with him, missing him holding me, and just plain missing him...
I keep trying to think of ways that we could have made it work, but no matter what I come up with, I know it would have failed as well...
I don't see anyway it could have worked...
I keep thinking about how great it would be to just talk to him as a friend, and yes, flirt with him, and maybe even make him regret being an idiot to me...
My friend also told me that when he was just starting to go out with the older gal, he had told our mutual friend that he was trying to be very careful not to be too jealous or controlling, because he didn't want to make the same mistake of losing her, like he lost me...
That made my heart melt a little!
I keep holding the shred of hope that later in life it might still be destined, and we will end up together and he'll appreciate me more then...
Then I feel horrible for thinking that, and I feel like in a way I am dooming my current happy marriage...
How do I stop all these thoughts?
I'm afraid that one night I'll accidentaly say something and my husband will hear my deepest, darkest thoughts!
Help me, please!
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