I suspect something parapsychological is happening in my life.any ideas?

Question

there is something spooky going on or parapsychological here? writer meets hero! Crazy coincidences! the weirdest thing in my life! 5yrs ago i met a guy that I considered to be attractive but slightly ridiculous. I never saw him again since. A magazine announced a competition about novel writing. So I wrote a novel with him being the main character and I described everything about him even the tinniest details of his character and appearance. I admited i loved him (in the novel). After a while the mag people called me and said I won the competion and they will publish the novel soon. the next day or so, I meet him after 5 yrs and he comes to say hi and he remembers me very well (he was looking very intensely at me). I was mortified; I thought I would never meet him again and he would have never noticed me. I freaked out. I am afraid of him! I keep seeing him at random all the time. There is something like synchronicity between us. he gives me the creeps.

Answer 1

Tell him to pi$$ off.  Congrats on the novel...whats the name? and when will it be released?

Answer 2

Wow sounds like you gotta tiger by the tail. Once again further proof that "The Truman Show" is for real.

Answer 3

People get reacquainted all the time.  There's nothing even remotely paranormal in this.

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Answer 4

Ok.

Answer 5

Congratulations on your novel winning the contest, thats pretty cool.

Sorry that this guy is bothering you. I am sure its just a coincidence that you met him, or maybe he was one of the judges who picked your story.

hmmm, you never know, small world.

Answer 6

I'd ask myself why am i so afraid of him, and why does he freak you out? He obviously impressed you enough to have written a book based on Him. Maybe it's fate trying to push the cards a bit. I can understand your embarrassment. It's like a personal secret or private thoughts that someone could find out about. He probably has no idea you wrote that book and maybe as you say  (he was looking very intensely at me). Maybe he has an interest in you he also doesn't quite understand. Why don't you just tell him if you see him again. Least thank him for helping you get a book published? Actually if it wasn't for him.........

Answer 7

is strange your question,doesn't seem for real, i had seen this question already and i can assure you is not deja'vu.but i have to tell you have a good imagination,what i sense is that you are in need to fulfill some emotional aspect of your conscious or simply you are being paranoid.

Answer 8

I heard this once in a girl who wanted to see her "OLD" boyfriend so bad she kept thinking she saw him everywhere, turns out she had to goto a shrink and they both agreed to say he died so she could move on with her life,.....

This does not mean this is what is happening to you, but it is food for thought is all.....

:)

Answer 9

Does HE give you the creeps or the situation? Make sure you clearly define this...if there is no real reason to fear him; take a look at the situation. Synchronicity is just that; being synchronized...so it's not his fault.

Perhaps he is just waiting to see if you're going to "remember" what you're supposed to do together and is waiting on you to be 'open' to his advancements, etc...just a thought.

Answer 10

Have you seen, The Secret?

If not, rent it and it will all make sense.

Answer 11

I don't think it's random. Perhaps the first time in 5 years was but since then I think he has been purposefully making an effort to be in places that may afford the opportunity for you to see him. Please be cautious. Tell a few close friends about what's going on. Take a picture of him. Give the picture to 2 friends. Then along with a friend at your side confront him and firmly but calmly tell him you don't want to see him any more.

Answer 12

It sounds like he wants to cash in on your recent success. You might want to add another chapter or two to your novel. Some people are better left in your imaginations and wishful thinking. I used to have dreams of women I never met before but was unprepared for anything intimate. Talk about about F'in up a wet dream.