I talk to my mom using badwords on a daily, is this normal?

Question

i am 18

Answer 1

No it is very rude and you should respect your mother better than that. She gave you life and has cared for you. What if something were to happen to her right now and you could not take those words back? You should be ashamed

Answer 2

Depends on what kind of words and if your mom is ok with it.  I never swore at my parents, and still to this day have a hard time getting simple swear words out.

Answer 3

Well there's two reasons as to why its bad;

one- its very rude to your mother and disrespectful to her as a person.

two- talking trash will lower people's opinion of you. Cuss words shows lack of self control, can be habit forming, and generally perceived as being 'uneducated' and stupid. I'm not calling YOU stupid, I'm just warning as to why you should try to control this now instead of later.

Imagine being in a job interview, and you started using bad words. You won't get a job. Perhaps you go on a date; same thing happens.

Answer 4

i do it

Answer 5

Nope, it's disrespectful. Would you like one of your buddies talking to your mom like that? Or your grandma or someone you love? Even if it's in regular conversation, bad words really don't get your point across any better than if you just cleaned it up.

Answer 6

erm,it depends....

if u n ur mother used to communicate in this kinda way,its normal....

but if its doesnt,u r so RUDE!

Answer 7

Well, if your mom is a terrible person that put you in physical and mental jeopardy every day of your life and didn't feed you and you were in and out of the system and she was in and out of jail and if she was a crack w***e who sold herself to get the next high, and made you watch,  then yes!  I can see why you speak so disrespectfully to her, because she doesn't deserve respect and she knows it which is why she lets you do it.  You and she both must want the world to know how little respect she deserves.  Good job!

Answer 8

ummm in my personal opinion, i do not think it is normal simply because it is disrespectful, i am not saying that is what you are intending to do, i am almost 30 and have not live with my mom for sometime but if i let one slip through i don't feel right...  but then again if your mom does not have a problem with then......why should you?

Answer 9

No it's not normal and its rude. I am a grown adult with kids of my own and I still don't curse in front of my mother, or anyone in my family for that matter. If you can't respect your mom enough not to curse in front of her, or even worse at her who do you respect?

Answer 10

very rude, you should respect your mom like she is god.

Answer 11

Let me get this straight this is the same woman who was there the day you were born. The one that changed your diaper when you soiled it the one who got up in the middle of the night to walk you or to get you a bottle.  The one who did her best to get you fed and clothed and schooled.  The one who has been there all these years to try to help you through a problem or just to listen.  

Tell you what go to a local hospital and ask to go into the labor room and hold the hand of one of the women there.  I guarantee you will feel a pain you have never felt before as they squeeze down on your hand when a contraction hits.  That pain is small compared to the hurt your mother must feel each time you talk to her with such disrespect.  

You ask if this is normal, you know it is not or you would not have asked the question.  Is it proper you know that answer too.  

Clean up your act. It is time to grow up and be a man your mother can be proud of 100% of the time.

Answer 12

No,it is rude.

Answer 13

pause and think, okay?  it is abnormal! bad is always bad! bad day, bad hair, bad weather, bad company, bad person, bad word etc. . .

Reflect on yourself and on your ways.  Do I plan to have these bad words stay with me till I take my last breath?  I presume you don't want to.  Change your ways, start now, time is so short so as not to tell people close to you that you love them!

Tomorrow may not come, and even if you regret you can never make a rebound!

Answer 14

It's rude and soooooooooooo disrespectful!

Answer 15

I don't care how old you are.  It is disrespectful.

Answer 16

uh, I cuss when talking to my mom, just not AT her. So as long as she doesn't think it's disrespectful.

Answer 17

i do too.. a lot of pple do, but it is bad.. if you're actually calling her bad words then i'd try to stop..

Answer 18

No, my 15 year old daughter  has never cussed me out, we might jokingly say god my mom is such a b*tch when I say no to some crazy outlandish thing that she knew she would never get but its a joke. Your parents gave life to you

Respect Them!

Answer 19

Dude, that is wrong... that's not the right way to speak to your mom.