I think God is very unfair,?

Question

My mom was laid to rest yesterday I was there but after I had a bad feeling about God , I felt he has made my life much more harder than before,Loosing my mom really hurted me, I wanted to yell and scream and shout at him , I feel like he never aswered any my questions

Why is God soo mute?Why can't he ever speak? Why can't he heel?

most people say his answers are in the bible, but that's not really answers,is there really something very wrong with GOD?

Because God has let me down too many times and made my life a mess,

Answer 1

I'm sorry to hear about your mom, but there is no God.  Some people will waste their life away asking questions like this (Why doesn't God love me?  Why didn't he help me?).  If you think outside of the box for a minute, you will clearly see that there can't be a God.  If there were, there would be no wars, crime, or incidents like this one.  Life is really just a chain of events that are not "preplanned" or whatever Christians are saying at the moment.  But like I said, I'm sorry about your mom.  Good luck.

Answer 2

First of all, I am SO sorry to hear about your mom. I can't imagine what that feels like, and I know it will take time for you to recover from your loss.

About God, I believe God IS fair, but His view of things comes from a perspective that we aren't wise enough or powerful enough to see. From my own personal experience, I read the whole Bible and wasn't satisfied and then converted to Islam and things made more sense for me. Maybe this is a time in your life when you need to think through what makes sense for you and what will help you get through the life with the good times and bad.  

Answer 3

First of all God is not mute, he may not talk to you face to face but He may talk to you by other people. For example if you go out at night and your parents told you not to go and you go out anyways and get in an accident by a drunk driver, God warned you, He warned you by your parents voice. God does soo many good things to us and we don't even realize  it. God can heal you if you just believe. Believe in The Lord and you will be healed, faith is what makes miracles.

Nothin is wrong with God, God did not make your life a mess, it was most likely the devil. God does not tell you to drink, take drugs, do things illegal. It is all the devil. So maybe YOU have something to do with it.

Answer 4

I am not suprised you feel like this,I am so so very sorry about your mum,thats very sad to hear. Your questions regarding God are normal at this stage,its so early days. But God DOES care,very much.This is not what he intended for humand kind who he himself created.He promises that he will put this right in his time.As God Almighty,his time scale is different to ours.But he WILL bring your mum back,on a New Earth,I promise. This wont seem believable at the moment and thats okey. But please dont lose faith completely.

Answer 5

We can't blame God for the bad things that happen in this world.  He is the one who created all things and made them PERFECT!  He also gave us freewill and we ruined the world and caused the death and destruction.

Please accept my heart felt condolences for the death of your dear mother.  I am so sorry.

Please turn to God instead of turing away.

Answer 6

You can't blame the fact that you've had a hard life on something you can't see. People die when they get old or sick. You don't have much money after you get laid off from work. There are all kinds of bad things that can happen to you, but you can't just blame it on someone (something) else. Not everything is God's fault. It wasn't him that caused your mother to die. It was old age or cancer or a heart attack.

Maybe you need to look outside religion for answers to what's been happening in your life. Don't look for someone to blame, try to understand that sometimes these things just happen. Instead of yelling and screaming, try to forgive and let go.

I'm sure your mother would be happy knowing that you weren't suffering.

Answer 7

I'm sorry for you lost; but I wonder if your mom would want you to give up on God.  You probably never had a true connection with God and this is the time to ask him for strength and love in your heart.  One has to have the desire with all their heart and soul and with sincerity to be able to communicate and hear God speaking to you.  

God does not let down anyone, we, individually, let ourselves down when one does not live with the Holy Spirit.

GOD BLESS YOU!   AMEN!    SHALOM!

Answer 8

Have you ever had any evidence, in all your life, that a god exists?

Life stinks and then you die. Sorry, that's all - no god, of any kind.

Answer 9

i am sorry to hear about your mom and it will take time for you to come to terms with her passing,  it is ok for you to be mad at God for He understands and still loves you. He knows what is coming in our lives for He is all seeing and all knowing and maybe He called your Mom home to save her from something really terrible.  My son passed away this month and he had suffered so much the last 2 or 3 years and as much as i miss him i know he no longer suffers.

Answer 10

I'm not a Christian but I wanted to answer your question , there is something called the Divine Balance , without dark , light cannot exist , without another death , another life cannot exist , without difficulty , easy cannot exist ,it's all Balanced .

Answer 11

If the world was a nice place 2 live & no1 died from various causes no1 would realize how precious & short life is nor would they realize that every1 needs God. If this world was a type of paradise with little 2 no uncertainty of death or calamity. Even the way the world is few actually look 2 know God & what He is actually about, His true message. More likely than not most people dont turn 2 God unless they r faced with catastrophe or dangerous situation. Some may only take such action & not return 2 God thereafter but a few learn enough that they stay with Jesus or God actually touches their life in such a way that they realize that God will get them thu whatever happens in their life (building upon whatever faith they started with.

Without the world the way it is free will would b meaningless. If the world was a nice place most people would only turn 2 God if they were robots. Without free will it wouldnt b about choice. God is demonstrating what things r like without God being in charge of people's lives. Only by having a personal relationship with Jesus can 1 be changed 2 what is of the righteousness of God. Without this personal relationship with Jesus u cant know what is the real righteousness that comes from God. Sometimes a believer will still fail 2 rightly follow Jesus but its only those who desire in their hearts 2 b with Jesus can u have a chance of overcoming the wrongs in your life.

In the Bible it warns us that we rnt 2 trust humans, not even ourselves (Jer 10:2-5,23; Is 2:22; Job 12:11; Prov 14:12; Acts 17:11). So carefully think over what I say. Dont just believe or disregard what I write. It might save u from making the same mistakes many have made, getting caught up in religious beliefs that have nothing 2 do with finding & knowing God.

The problem is theres many religions & different varieties. 1 day I realized they cant all be right (i.e. theres 1 Bible, why so many interpretations? - II Pet 1:**19-21). Most religions came thru people who thought up things for a God they & others liked. Some realized religion could be good 2 control the masses & 4 other agendas. However, religion cant teach u much about God (they cant teach what they dont know). Who knows more about a house He who built it or he who moves in later?

Just b/c religions made many mistakes (many fatal) doesnt mean God doesnt know what He's doing. The main point thats not clear 2 many: Jesus stated that no1 can find our real God except thru Jesus (Jn 14:6; 5:39; 10:1,7; Acts 4:11). This means "the" truth was complete & there4 finished thru what Jesus taught & did. So, any so-called new teaching & any other religious beliefs r null & void & cant lead u 2 God. The truth is either the whole truth or it isnt the truth. The truth is the absence of any lie. Either Jesus told the whole truth or He's a false prophet, among many, whom should be disregarded. This would also mean that God must not exist either (He either knows what He's doing or He cant be God).

But, heres evidence God knows what He is doing. Jesus couldntve done nor said what He did unless He had full understanding of the entire Old Testament (the New Testament didnt exist @ the time of Jesus - the only way Jesus couldve known the whole OT is if God was with Him). & the Apostles couldnt remember & write down the NT unless Jesus allowed them to remember & know what He was here 4 (Lk 24:25-27,45). None of this was possible unless an incredibly Intelligent Being caused it.

But God outsmarted man, b/c the Bible's the only 1 known 2 man that cant be properly understood without going thru Jesus (Jn 14:6; II Cor 3:14 - If the Jewish people cant pierce the veil over the OT without going thu Jesus then rest-assurd neither can all gentiles). This is why theres many interpretations & people thinking its all just fairytales.

A church thats very serious about finding the Biblical truth, understands what being Born Anew is about, might be able 2 help u but no1 can save u except Jesus (Jn 3:1-14 - note: Nicodemus was very religious but Jesus flatout told him he had missed the 1rst most important step, that he must be Born Anew or no matter how religious or good he thought he is he couldn't go 2 Heaven (Jn 3:3,5; Jn 14:6; Acts 4:12). No1 can live without breaking God's Law.

Whoever seeks Jesus Christ with all his heart & soul will find Him (u shall know the truth & it will set u free). But u can lead a horse 2 water but u cant make them drink. Why should God want u 2 live with Him forever if u dont want 2 know Him (reason 4 free will)? The truth of God remains forever while things of a man dies with him, including his religions & gods made in his image. Theres everlasting hope only in Jesus Christ.

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Answer 12

i dont htink that you should be blaming god. losing our family members is a process in life. i lost my mom when i was 10 an di was mad with god and i hate him and i hated my mom for leaving me. but as i grew older i understood that not everyone is lucky in life and that we all have to gp trough many experinces in life but that's how we learn from what we been through. so dont blame god it is just part of our life and if you belief in god then think about all the things that he suffer when he was crucified and all the things that other people around the world go through every day. also remember taht every time that you say you hate god or say or do something against god he is suffering too and you are crucifying him again. and last but not least how do you think god's feel toward all the sins and stuff we do that make him cry over the years since the beginnig of the humanity to today, dont you think he is tire of this too?

Answer 13

Sorry I answered this question just now (about 2 minutes ago) but the answer hasn't come up.

Very sorry at the loss of your Mum. I lost my own Mum 2 years ago. I loved her and it was very painful to see her go.

I think you will get comfort from the people around you.

Answer 14

I'm sorry about what happended to you. Please remember that God is always by your side. He feels your pain. All I can say is to keep praying. Pray from the bottom of your heart for God to help you get through any tough situation that comes your way. My prayers go out to you

Answer 15

The world was perfect before sin, but because of Adam and Eve, the worst can happen to the best of people, we as humans can't understand everything God does, but there is a purpose