I'm Filipino and was brought up with the ideal that it was best to marry within my own "race". Just recently my boyfriend's friend who is the same "race" as I began dating a "black" girl who I think personality-wise nice and a bit on the shy side (which is not a bad thing). However, their relationship seem to be conflicting with my ideal and I do not want to blame it on how I was brought up. Every time I think of it, I find it a little odd and sometimes find myself sort of cringing on the inside. I know it's none of my business what happens with other people and the choices they make and I should keep this opinion to myself. However, do not get me wrong, I have great "black" friends and believe that they are awesome people.
How can I change this old-world/racist/unnecessary thought?
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