I think I'm bi but I don't want to be what do i do?

Question

It's cause facing my family and other students would be horrible!!!! all the guys in my grade are so ugly and immature and they totally turn me off.... but the girls on the other hand, I cant stop looking and their b*****s and buts and wondering what it's like to do stuff with another girl as opposed to a guy... even my best friend i some timeconsiderer making moves on her but then decide not to because it would be weird after... i don't know if this is a fase how do i know and does this mean i only like girls because there was a guy i did like him a few weeks ago but he ended up a jerk so... i guess i am bi OMG PLEASE HELP!!!!!!

Answer 1

you shouldn't go bi just because a guy ended up being a jerk.

you should be bi because you genuinely feel that way.

Answer 2

So your not attracted to men, but you are attracted to women. And you dont want to be because your afraid of what everyone will say. Sounds like most g*y teens in high school. There is no law that states you have to be out and proud of it. If your not ready to deal with the whole world knowing your orientation dont talk about it.

The truth of the matter is kids are mean. You need to figure out what is really going on with you. If you like women big deal. If you like guys who cares. Maybe your attracted to both... again so what. Your sexual identy is yours and only yours to define. Look up your local PFLAG (parents and friends of lesbians and g**s) chapter and give them a call. They can offer you support in understanding your questions.

Answer 3

Don't worry it is just a phase. But don't make a move on your best friend, because I think my best friend is a bi and if she ever made a move on me I would be appauled.

Answer 4

i think i kno how u feel i started 2 have feelings for girls wen my bf use 2 cheat on me all the time and after dat boys were just a turn off 2 me but i feel dat if u really start 2 get 2 kno a girl like her personality and stuff and u think u can have a relationship with her then go for it love comes in all different ways and even if it is a phase by u seeing how it would be 2 be with anotha girl it might make your decesion easier u neva kno if u lke somthing unless u try and i kno that other people would judge u but if they really care they would want u 2 be happy

hope i helped :)