I think I'm gonna get a HUGE problem sometime soon?

Question

okie, this is a long story, so please read:

My mate Melianie is 16, she was in love with her boyfriend, they wanted to get married & she was pregnant. They were proper happy together. Her parents obviously disaproved, his mom didn't mind. Things at home even got so bad that she ran away & lived with her boyfriend. Everything was great (for them)...then she had a miscarriage...

This totally broke her. I hadn't know anyone that had a miscarriage till then, so I had no ideaa what to do. So I just was there for her, you know. I let her stay over at mine for a bit, just for a few sleepovers, that is what people do, "cool off", have time apart right?, well thats what I thought anyway. But then she wanted to move in with me & my sisters (I don't live with my parents). My big sis didn't mind, but then weeks turned into months and I asked her if everything was okay beetween her and her bf, she said she dumped him ages ago! I was like,WHAT?, she actually never told me. I couldn't believe it, they were great together. So I met up with her ex bf, he'd moved on, had a new girlfriend, and said that Mel broke it off ages ago & she turned into a mad *****.

So now I'm totally confused, I thought there's no point asking her why she never told me, she'll only kick off, so I went back to mine & forgot about it.

Then yesterday she needed to txt someone, had no credit, so used my phone. Then my little sis started messing with my phone, she found the message my friend sent, showed my big sis, and my big sis got mad..with me. I read the txt she sent, and it was about her wanting meet some guy on eSpin, and her name was "Rachel". It was a bit more..explicit though. So i just calmly brought it up to her, in a random convo, and she told me..she wants a BABY!! Now I'm seriously am WTF.

So now she wants a kid at 16, with some guy she's met online, has been staying at mine for months, and thrown away the relationship with the guy she loves. So I have no idea what to do. I've told her that the whole thing is too extreme, not to do it. But she doesn't listen! I'm scared for her, what should I do?

Thanks ☺☻

Answer 1

So she is going to have a problem not you!! She needs to grow up and your sisters need to kick her out, problem solved.

Answer 2

In answer to your question, yes. You are going to have a huge problem. You need to send her back to her parents and she needs to grow up.

Ask her where shes planning on living when shes knocked up by this internet bloke

Answer 3

she's only 16? She's not a legal adult. You're harboring a runaway. GO tell her parents to come get her. If they wont, you & you're sisters need to show some tough love, tell her why first then put her out!

You've been the best friend you can be until this point. BUT, she's not yours to raise. Do the best you can and then wash your hands. It's not your job to raise and make a productive member of society of this child.

Answer 4

well it is better for you to leave her  ,she is Not your friend  ,dont be so nice to her

Answer 5

You need to send her back home with her parents.  The only intelligence she has is how to scam you.