I have been reading some of the answers and now I'm worried! I begged my gf's father to let us get married and now they are planning a wedding with about half the town and a big affair with all the bells and whistles. I was a little worried although if I don't have to pay for it I don't care what they want! We can get married in a mansion and go to the best reception hall in the world. But now there is talk of rings, food etc. I have already been looking at pawn shops for rings (a few hundred dollars). I found one for myself and a nice 1/2 carrot diamond for her. But honestly I cannot even spend more than $1000. The money I have saved is for our apt, first month rent and security deposit, furniture, house furnishings, appliances, as well as all the baby stuff. My several thousand I will gladly pay for all this. I have been saving since I started my job a few years ago. So I don't know who will pay for an expensive dress, new rings, food for the guests, etc. Should I tell the parents it's all on them? Or just put down my $1000 contribution and tell them this is all I can pay? Should I cancel the wedding and elope? Maybe I could get the consent form and than sneak off somewhere and get married and have a nice little $1000 wedding and honeymoon? I am full of anxiety now!! I feel I might be too deep in the pickle jar?
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