I think I FELL IN LOVE, WHAT DO YOU THINK?

Question

I was crying my hands over my eyes and tears dripping through my hands. I found out my dad had brain cancer. The bell rung and everyone was in class, until this guy named Derrek came up to me and asked me what's wrong. I told him my dad got diagnosed with brain cancer. His held out his hand to me (it felt like a movie!!) and asked me if he could take me to the guidance office. (Btw, i'm a freshmen) So i grabbed his hand and we were walking in the hallways and I kept looking down because i didn't know what to say. He looked at me and said, "It's okay to cry. by the way, i'm derrek." and I made a little smile but I didn't know who he was and why he did this. So we eventually went to the guidance office and the guidance counselor who was a woman just smiled at both of us. I told her that my dad got brain cancer. Derrek said he was going to go back to class. I kind of looked sad because this was the SWEETEST thing any guy has ever done. Then the guidance counselor tried helping me and then she told me to go back to class so I didn't miss too much work so I said okay. I went out the door and Derrek was there. I thought he went back to class. Derrek came up to me and said, "I knew you would follow me." and then he hugged me. WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK ABOUT THIS? I'M SERIOUSLY THINKING HE'S MY LOVE?

Answer 1

I think that he's a really nice guy helping you through something that's very rough. ( I'm sorry about your Dad by the way, cancer runs in my family so I know how lost and sad you must be feeling)

I would say give it some time and see how things go just to make sure that is really love. I think this could be the start.

Answer 2

You are in a very vulnerable time.  Love is way too strong a word to even consider at this moment.  He is there while you are in a serious crisis.  I don't think this should be you focus at this time.  I hope he is not trying to play on your vulnerability.  Keep him as a friend, but I wouldn't even put the thought of love in your head at this time.  Be cautious.

Answer 3

I'm seriously thinking you need to be with your father and paying attention to him right now.

I'm not quite understanding why you would start falling for some guy who was nice to you becasue you were crying and he took you to the guidance counselour and waited to walk you back to class. Grief affects people differently. You are thinking this moment came out of a movie. As I see it, he was just a guy who was nice to you.'

Don't read into this or his actions. You have alot bigger things to worry about right now and being in love with some guy you don't even know is the last thing you should be thinking about.

Answer 4

that is so sweet! love is all what derrek has shown you that day.

Answer 5

that's so sweet mabe he is

Answer 6

cute. but just because of one little experience idk if you should be jumping into thoughts of love 4 this guy.. u just met him. BUT i do think hes really interested in you stay in touch with him and see what happens. If its meant to be it will find its way. :)

Answer 7

I think your in love with him too, and I think he could be in love with you. If he does he'll show up a lot. Things will play out for you believe me. Just see how it goes but you definitely love him and he sounds very mysterious and I'm kinda confused on what he meant in the last part but you guys remind me of this really amazing love story. If you don't mind could you tell me how it goes??! Thanks! =) lol. And good luck!

Answer 8

No one can know for sure except you.  

Answer 9

im not sure, all i no that is love in unexplainable and only the you can know..

this sounds look a book.

Answer 10

you dont think your in love. either you know it or you dont. love is not a maybe thing

Answer 11

I really think you were just caught up in the moment every time i meet a girl i always think i am in love when I'm happy with them but really i dont think you are.

Answer 12

Its attraction as per my knowledge, when u see Derrek again if u start feeling that u can not live without this person then it is LOVE.

Just be his friend and know him well, whether he is interested in long term relationship or he just want s*x!! Best way of knowing is to ask him "Am i HOT Or BEAUTIFUL" if he says u are hot then he is just sexually attracted and if beautiful then he really likes u, and u can make him to fall in love with u.

Now i would like to give u one precious advice " DO NOT MARRY THE PERSON U CAN LIVE WITH, MARRY THE PERSON U CAN NOT LIVE WITHOUT"

Good Luck

Regards

A.J.

Answer 13

He's probably just horny. Trying to use you in your weakened state for easy s*x.

Someone had to say it.

Answer 14

A lot of times when people get very very bad news about someone, they try to turn those feelings into another, better type of feeling.

But, that was very very sweet of him, I'm glad that he was there for you. I'm so sorry about your dad.

Try to keep talking to someone about all the feelings you have about your dad, and anything else you want to talk about actually.

Good luck with everything :] My prayers are with you and your family.

Answer 15

First of all i'm very sorry to hear about your dad and hope he gets better :)

Now about the boy personally i think that was a very sweet thing to do.  In the terms of him liking you i think theres a high possibility there or why else would he be waiting for you.  Either that or hes just a very nice person,

Maybe you should start to hang out with him to get to know him a little better and see if any other obvious signs show up.

And again very sorry about your dad :'(

Hope this advice helped

:)

♥-Amber

Answer 16

Thats soo sweet. Not many guys would do that.I cant quite say its love YET, but get to know him girly and hopefully y'all will work out.

I really hope y'all do.

This is just too cute,

:)