I think I am a swinger.?

Question

I enjoy the idea of "swapping partners". Are there any swingers out there. Any good or horrible experiences. I am wanted to be 100% sure before we go through with any thing. Thanks.

Answer 1

My Master and I have been non-mono for several years now.  We have had both the good and the bad experiences, but most of all, I advice against polyamory... that almost never turns out well.  Swinging, threesomes, cucking... these I would far recommend over that.  Definately, be sure you know what you are doing before you do it, because a door once opened can not always be closed later.  Don't worry about the nay sayers on here... they are a bunch of puritanical bible nuts who live life under a rock.... do what is right for you and your husband.

Answer 2

My ex tried to get me to do all that c**p and it tor us apart . She is out there today in the world s******g everyone and has std spreading it around to who ever will do her and allot are she is a very good looking woman but very dirty inside . Good luck to all you w***e mongers out there . I like my life just the way it is Clean .

Answer 3

From what I've read, the 100% sure you seek must be between you and your husband. You both must be 100% sure that you can handle any such relationships without jealousy.

Visit a club, online or in person, to get an idea of what goes on. Just learn how to say, "No, thank you" and use those words to protect yourself from unwanted advances.

Answer 4

You are disrespecting your husband!

You should not do this.

Swinging is adultery

Answer 5

We have been swinging for over 8 years and are very happy and secure in our choice to do so.

There is no way of knowing 100% that swinging is for you, unfortunately this is something you must try before knowing that you like it or dislike it.

I coach people daily on the excitements and pitfalls of swinging, please feel free to contact me for further advice. I simply enjoy assisting when I can.

Ginni

Answer 6

you think

Answer 7

You and your partner need to make sure its something you are both completely comfortable with. There cant be any kind of jealousy between you or it wont work.

And last but not least, be safe.  there is too many diseases going around.

Answer 8

Obviously you do not love your husband enough to be faithful to him.  Why did you take vows?  You could have remained single and slept with anyone your wanted to sleep with.

Answer 9

What you need to do is find a good swingers club, they are in any city of more than 10,000 people.  Then ask all the questions you want.  They have heard them all and have answers.  

Swinging is one of 2 things. - a reason to s***w around or a lifestyle.  Those who take it seriously live the lifestyle.  They also have a divorce rate of under 10%, 5 times less than average.

Answer 10

lay off the p**n (or at least try to stick to "straight" stuff.

You are opening a pandoras box.

No, let me rephrase this...

You are playing Russian Roulette.

Why take a chance that the one bullet may not hit you.  

(Why risk losing your marriage?  You probably don't value it as much as you think you do.)

This sexual behavior is parallel to any other type of "vice."

What void are you trying to fill, hon?

Instead, find other ways to spice up your s*x life and you can reach new heights in love-spiritual s*x.