I think I found my birth sister now what?

Question

I have searched and reached a match...She has the same info as I do and also non-identifying info...on that it also had my mothers birthdate...now we can not find a way to be sure besides DNA since everything is unopened...thanks for any insite

Answer 1

send her a letter through the mail....but be careful. I found my biological parents a few years ago...well...my mom and my sister....and although they are great and all, they become very attached to you because they didnt have you for so many years. Its a bit overbearing at times....if you let them in your life, be prepared because they will be in your life for good.

Answer 2

If you can write to somewhere,forward a letter to her ,for her to get in contact and see what happens.

Answer 3

The only way your really going to know is by getting in touch with her.

For me once I met them I knew...we were all made from the same cookie cutter

I really hope you have someone to talk to during this, reunion is an emotional roller coaster.

Answer 4

I would send her a certified letter that she has to sign for so you know if she received it or not. And touch bases with her. Give her some time to digest it and reply, and hopefully take a DNA test to determine your connection or not.

Actually now that I re-read your question, I am unable to determine if you've already contacted her or not. Because your records are sealed so you can unverify, but just contact her GO FOR IT!! Its why you searched right?

come on over to http://www.adultadoptees.org for some support.

Answer 5

I'm a little unclear as to whether you've made contact or not.  Upon first read, it looked like perhaps not.  Then, when I read it again, a couple of things you said makes it sound as though you have made contact.  For example, you said she has the same info you have.

Anyway, the only way to be 100% certain is DNA.  Although, it sure sounds like you've got an accurate match.

Good luck!

Answer 6

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