I think I have finally wrote my best piece on an Open Marriages on YA M&D?

Question

I just finished reviewing my answer, and I believe I finally summarized what it means to be in an open marriage.

What do you think, after you read my response?

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080824073500AA1fNsh&r=w#O8F4J1PEMlJNjTV_yPDx

Answer 1

The link doesn't work right.

Answer 2

cheesy that you wrote a post to boast about an answer to another question...

Though its good to see someone at least writing more than "end your marriage" or "seek counseling". As the third member of a poly triad, Im always glad to see someone saying, look, theres nothing wrong with loving.  I usually post the example that most people say that if you love someone, and you need someone else, that you cant love your first partner.  Which is junk.  Because if you have a child, then have another, you dont love the second one less, a person doesnt have a total amount of love that gets divided, they love more.  Not right for everyone, but right for others.  And whats ever wrong with love if everyone is happy?  

One thing though and thats labeling swingers as extream.  Compersion is a phenomenon appreciated by swingers and poly alike.  And you can very easily be a poly swinger.  A poly triad can swing just like a couple or single can.  Usually swingers shun emotional connections of the romantic type, but they call it a socialsexual activity for a reason.  And most relationships start out as friends either way.  

Answer 3

It doesn't matter to me one way or another if someone has an open marriage, but to boast that you wrote such a good response is ludicrous!  Your writing is that of a 6th grader, so I don't see why you are boasting about how good it is.

Answer 4

It's idiotic!

Answer 5

Yeah...I am sure it will be on the front page of the Washington Post...

Answer 6

I think that you should get married and get into an open marriage and see what it is like, and then get into a good marriage and see what that is like, and then, after another 20 years or so, maybe you can really comment on what marriage is like. Life is a lot more than an essay or book report. I suggest that you grow up before giving advice.

Dan

Answer 7

cool

Answer 8

It's a load of BS.  If you're in a happy, fulfilled marriage, why even take the risk of introducing other people?  If you want to do this, to me it means that you shouldn't be married in the first place.  It's just rubbish.