I think I have made my life troubled when I really didn't need to..read the rest?

Question

however, I think this is really healthy because it has made me stronger and more understanding as a person!I've lived a troubled life. My point is though...isn't this what Jesus done? It frustrate's me watching people always taking the easy, safe option! anyone else feel the same? hope i'm not on my own on this!

Answer 1

You know what, I know exactly what you mean! I have made my life exponentially more harder when I realy didnt need to. I brought bad things upon myself when I could have gone the easy route and avoided them. But I have to push my self harder to get out of these situations which ultimately makes me a better, stronger and smarter person and I achieve more than others through this.

Answer 2

I have somehow always had to take the hard road and my life has been troubled too. I would like to say not from my own doing but I am responsible. I use to think that way, Jesus was persecuted too, so who am I to complain. I see more people get an easier life than I have. As much as it has pained my soul. I wouldnt change a thing. Before those things happened I was dumb and naive. I agree with you. I dont think I have become stronger, just smarter.  

Answer 3

I know lots of people who are very strong and understanding but they did not get that way by making trouble for their lives. Usually, trouble found its way to them through other peoples actions, which is unfair, but it has made the stronger and more understanding.Taking safe, easy options may frustrate you, but making unwise, difficult decisions for yourself can lead to self-destruction. And no, Jesus did not do that! Reading up on his life will give you a better understanding of what he did. I applaud you if you have made decisions that are difficult but wise and good for you.