I think I may be a lesbien and I don't know how to test it out?

Question

What could I do in order to get my foot in the door and see if they're just innocent feelings or I really am attracted to girls?

Answer 1

You should know instantly about the way you feel about boys, and the way you feel about girls.

Answer 2

Nice knowing you..

Answer 3

Well first of all 95 percent of women have an attraction to women... most of us have the eye to compare other women to us... and to also rate them as in looks... doesnt mean ur a L*****n... but i would say the perfect way of finding out is from experience... craigslist.org is a way to find women looking for women or maybe g*y clubs... it takes an experience to find your true self...

Answer 4

Send me pictures of you making out with a girl and I'll let you know.

Answer 5

Go on a date with a girl. Or Kiss a girl and see if u feel the magic and by the way IM NOT LESBIEN IM ATTRACTED TO GUYS ONLY sometimes i do think lesbiens are a tad odd.

Answer 6

The best way to do is try to make out with girls and see how it feels. If it turns you on then you are L*****n. It does turn me on so I am L*****n :D

Answer 7

I'm a L*****n and I did not need any experimenting I just knew that I was sexually attracted to women it's something you know and feel. Sometimes women will date men and so on just because of society but deep down inside it's women who they are really attracted too they just choose to live a lie. I would say sit down and analyze your feelings towards men and women and determine which one really turns you on. Then again you might come up feeling the same towards both which would make you bi.

Answer 8

do you find men attractive  

Answer 9

There's no one "test."  If you enjoy something, you enjoyed that moment.  If you get disgusted, or it doesn't arouse you, that's a specific person you're responding to.  Instead of going out of your way to look for tests, meet people as people, and see which way your heart and your body lead you.

If guys don't do it for you, in general, it's fair to say that you might be hoping to be L*****n (note the spelling, BTW).  In which case, if you would like that to be true, you could go to a GLBT group and say exactly that: "life might be fun and easier if I were a successful L*****n, because guys are not doing it for me."  You are just as likely to be someone with intimacy issues as a L*****n, but at least you'll be working on having good relationships and finding out about yourself.

Answer 10

Look, im christian, if u dont want to be a L*****n, just pray to god and he can help you. I beleive gayness and lesbians are making a sin. Through god, nobody has to be g*y.

Answer 11

I'm going to state the obvious here...kiss a girl! Do some heavy making out and petty/groping and see if you like it.

Answer 12

Seek counseling.

Go to church. talk to a pastor.

Do you really want to burn in h**l?

I love other guys and you know WHAT!

I don't have to have s*x with them.  

Answer 13

go to a g*y/L*****n bar see if you can pick someone up. If you don't have the nerve then I guess just randomly makeout with a friend or someone who u knw to be L*****n or bi.

Answer 14

try experimenting with a girl

u will find out then if u like it

Answer 15

kiss a girl and if you like it well...

Answer 16

I think your just curious if you were a L*****n you wouldn't have feelings for anyone of the opposite s*x. If you were a L*****n i believe that you would know. I am not a L*****n so i don't know how you know but i have a childhood friend who just recently came out and who said that she just knew she has always known that she was a L*****n.

Answer 17

Hello, Katy Perry ring a bell!

Answer 18

sexual experimentation with another girl.

Answer 19

go kiss a girl. if you like it and find that you want to go farther, then your a L*****n.  

Answer 20

Get drunk and kiss a pretty girl. Then, see what happens.  

Answer 21

if you find L*****n p**n hot.

Answer 22

Who do you fantasize about guys or girls or both? Don't worry about it. Relax and see what specific person, rather than gender you end up with.  

Answer 23

i kissed a girl and i liked it, the taste of her cherry chapstick ;)  

Answer 24

If you aren't certain, then you probably aren't one.

Answer 25

dont test it out, things are better left alone

Answer 26

Go to a g*y bar or event, and just let it flow

Answer 27

Girls check out other girls but they don't get feelings towards them. Maybe just go on a date with a L*****n and see what's like. If you are still unsure ask the L*****n herself for advice, because she's obviously made up her mind?? Maybe you should describe the feelings you get toward girls and it'd be easier for us to tell you if they are innocent of not.

Answer 28

If you didn't start puberty yet I highly doubt you're a L*****n yet but maybe...

I thought I was g*y once but I can never take a d**k up my *** or kiss a man, that's how I found out. I also don't think boys are cute.

Answer 29

There's no single way.  You'll need some time and experiences with a number of different people to figure this out.