Well this started abouutt 3 years ago (when I was 14) and I was just feeling so down on myself all the time. I changed my look 3 times since then, and each time, for about 4 months, my self esteem would be great! I would feel good and like the way I looked...and then I'd come down and feel just as bad as I did in the beginning.
In the past 3 years my life has gone from great to poor. My dad lost his job and that has been affecting me tremendously (ya know, the whole keeping up with the Joneses complex)..my self esteem has been taking hit after hit after hit. I never feel good enough. Boys have never seemed to be interested in me, I've lost some friends (and I still don't know what I did..tried to be a good friend?) and those things just break me down. I hate the way I look 75% of the time (think I'm fat and kinda ugly..even though I'm only like 115lb at 5'3). I usually would prefer staying at home alone in my room than be out with my friends (a lot of the time though I do go out with them). If someone calls me ugly, or if I fail at sometime, or don't make something... I just crumble. I feel inadequate compared to others in certain things (not academics, but like sports, looks, personality, etc.).
My life just seems to get worse and worse. Everyone always says that it'll get better..but it never does!!! I usually try and hide this and I don't really want to tell my parents...
I've never done anything drastic (like drugs/eating disorders), because I want to have a good life (and also because I'm def addict material)..but the cards have never been in my favor..and I just cant take it anymore! I am so sick of feeling awful because of the way things seem to turn out!
I just don't know what to do. This has been going on for so long now...
What advice would you give me to get rid of this?
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