I think Im Bi-Curious?

Question

I like girls - a lot. I think the female body is beautiful and girls in particular are amazing. Ive always fancied girls but sometimes I get turned on by boys. I m********e over g*y p**n and watch men masturbating and I feel aroused by it. I've only ever been out with girls, and I dont plan to get with any boys but I just have these fantasies involving p***s etc. I find girls just as arousing, but watching guys is sometimes better.

If Im bi - should i embrace it? any similar stories you guys have that will help me out?

I also find some men good looking, but this probably doesn't mean much. Thanks

Answer 1

Yeah well if you are bi then of course you would still fancy girls,

if you're attracted to guys but not too sure whether or not your bi or straight, then you could just be bi curious.

One moment you may be straight and the next... well you're back to what you were doing before, lol.  

Answer 2

don't put yourself in a box, think of it that you are attracted to the person rather than the gender.....

as fall as good looking men, the same applies as it does to women, at the end of the day looks really aren't that important its about the person you can share things with, fun, laughter, interests.....love

good luck x

Answer 3

Frankly, there's no time-table you're compelled to follow.

In other words, you simply don't have to decide right this minute whether or not you should try having s*x with another male.

Just live your life from day to day, and see what crosses your path.  If you enjoy looking at males in videos [and in your imagination], but aren't particularly driven to actually have s*x with one in-person, then just be satisfied with that for now.

At 16 years old, you don't have to solidify your future sexual endeavors now.  Trust me, you will change various interests throughout your life, and that may very well include which gender you prefer at any given moment -- of the bisexuals I know, they all have gone through periods where they preferred one gender over another, and then the gender preference has switched.

And by the way, one of my bisexual friends continues to call himself bisexual even though he hasn't had s*x with a man in about 20 years.

Answer 4

That is exactly like me. Wow thats weird. anyway you can only find out by yourself. NO ONE ELSE CAN TELL YOU WHO YOU ARE. It will come eventually.

Answer 5

At sixteen you may be in puberty...and many people experience same s*x attraction during this period...  I wouldn't worry about it.  As time passes, if you continue to feel attracted to your same s*x...and the 'desire' is getting stronger, you may be either g*y or bisexual...  No big deal...you are what and who you are and there is no changing it...it is NOT a choice...  So, just relax and ride the wave...  This should be a time of discovery and joy...stop stressing about it...  Time has a funny way of healing all things...