I think a friend of mine is upset with me because he has stopped talking.?

Question

I am not sure what I have done or said.

How can I ask him, what I've done wrong without causing more upset

Answer 1

ask him what perturb him. you must to have a serious conversation

Answer 2

You've just answered your own question "ask him, what I've done wrong ..." or maybe it's not you....maybe give him some time and space and he will come to you when he's good and ready :D

Good Luck

Answer 3

The best way is to be chatty and ask if all is ok.

See what kind of response you get, then take it from there.

Answer 4

Who ever it is Lea , just ask him straight out..Its the simplest way there is and it gets the problem solved faster..

And it aint me for sure love..

Answer 5

Surely if you are friends you should be able to approach him without being so worried.

Just ask him outright if he feels that you have upset him in anyway.

Good luck x

Answer 6

Ask him in a nice way if you have done any thing to upset him and explain you have done nothing intentionally to upset him.

Answer 7

if you didnt do anything wrong to your friend then hes not upset with you,maybe he got some problems stuff like that,try to talk to him and ask him why hes not talking to you,dont be worried cause didnt do anything wrong,sometimes i dont talk to my friends if im sad,or my parents scolded and if i hvae problems.

Answer 8

If you mean on here, I had the same problem with one of my contacts. I e-mailed him to see if i'd done / said something to offend him, and he replied back saying no i hadn't and we were still mates.

Send him an e-mail and see if he replies.

I have many contacts, and can't always get around to talk or e-mail that often. It's probably nothing to worry about.

Answer 9

Most friends can talk about almost anything, so bite the bullet and just ask.

Answer 10

Just come out and say "did I do something cause you've been ignoring me and I need to know what the problem is?" I have a friend who does it when she's pissed or upset or whatever. It bothers me because it'll have nothing to do with me, but she's in one of her moods. She expects me to standby and wait for her to get over it, but I'm not a door mat. So, i'll come right out and ask her what her problem is because her negativity is pissing me off.

Answer 11

Maybe it's not you that he's upset about.

Don't accuse him of anything, just gently ask him if something is wrong and find out if there's anything you can do to help.

Answer 12

Just leave  him alone for little he might need some space, if he really a good friend he will come back to you.