I think children to teenager girls shouldnt be wearing clothes that show off there sexual side. T or F ?

Question

I think children to teenager girls( 1 to 17yrs old) shouldnt be wearing clothes that show off there body . Young women shouldnt be or not suppose to be being sexual that all. What is the main point of revealing clothes to sexual attract women/men, why in world do girls do it? Its usually to be s**y for what? to attract men for what??? Yes it happening more than some think. If parent dont want guys to be looking at their young children in just a sexual way, teach them why to not do so and not buy them s**y clothes. I know it their choice but dont complain if guys see you or your daughter more for her sexual side than anything else. My point is girls should not be wearing mini skirts, shorts w/ words on her butt, low cut shirts or shorts, and etc. Should be a no no for young girls. Yes guy are going to want s*x no matter if the girl is wrapped in clothing like a Islam women but if women dont or not suppose to have s*x YET dont provoke things by making it seem like your open or a tease. What do u think ? Do think this needs to stop? True or False and why.

Answer 1

I disagree....around 13 or 14,depending on the child,we need to recognize the transition to adulthood...supressing sexuality and artificially extending childhood is unhealthy...

Answer 2

I totally agree with you. You see girls between about 9-14 dressing like prostitutes nearly, and it only gets worse as they get older. I think any women/girl who respects herself dresses modestly, but these girls aren't taught to respect their bodies, themselves and other people. They think it's all a big game and that it's fun to get guys, and older men looking at them. I'm not saying that I agree with child pornography or rape in any way, but sometimes girls appear to welcome male attention by the way they dress. Some of them do it knowingly, but some don't realise what they're really doing. Also, we hear so much of taxi drivers etc raping girls in their cars. I don't think it's right that they do, but put yourself in that situation. A young attractive girls gets in your car, wearing very revealing clothes, perhaps talking to you suggestively, and that kind of situation is likely to get any guy a bit hot under the collar, and possibly mistake it as an invitation. Perhaps if girls dressed more modestly and didn't flaunt everything they've got to the whole world, they might have a bit more respect from people around them. That is a value my parents enforced, and having 4 sisters, we were all taught to dress modestly and not show our whole body to the world, and I'm glad they did. How you dress is a reflection of your veiw in the world, and if you dress like dirt, you'll likely get treated like that.  

Answer 3

I agree with you but most of the teenagers don't buy their clothes and if they do their parents let them wear them insetad of making them take it back

so i think this is true but in another instance lots of teenage girls are actually sexually active so they feel the need to dress like that so they can get that kind of attention

Answer 4

Its a balancing act dear. Children need a positive self image. Woman were given breast and they attract men. That is nature, not a perversion. Should girls who under the legal age of consent dress with slogans across the butt of their jeans or half shirts that barely cover the bottom of their breast? No. I don't think they should. However, our culture got this way from the pursuit of freedom. Is it safe for younger girls to wear this kind of attire? No. Is it our job to govern their forms of expression? This question is loaded. Yes and no are the right answers.

Lets look at a few petri dishes shall we. First, lets look at the arab culture. Highly restrictive on free expression and it is very frequently taken to extremes. Lets look at American culture. We pursue freedom like it is a right and always we try to eek out even more freedoms. When you give a little that amount becomes normal and then people want a little more. When you add controls, you get a new norm. Then people want to control a little more.

My opinion. I think the law and cultural levels of decency should be directly related. A child under 18 can't enter into a binding contract because the law says that they aren't mature enough to know what they are doing. The same can be said for the way girls dress. If a girl is below the age of puberty, then that girl should not be wearing anything that draws attention to her sexual regions. That means no bathing suits that show off her buttocks or vaginal region. They should wear those bathing suits with the little dress around them and should show no more than a couple inches of midriff and no make up. Girls between the age of puberty and maturity should not be allowed to wear clothes that exposes the flesh of their buttocks or the swell of their breast. There should be a dress code for public and semi private. We don't have to be prudish, but an individuals rights must be limited when taking into consideration the rights of all within a society. It is the room mate restriction. You can act how you want in your own home unless you have room mates then you have to add rules.

Teen girls should be able to express themselves. They should be free to explore the effects that their physical appearance has on the opposite s*x and on the same s*x. Just like reading, it is a necessary education that they must explore.

There should be a national dress code, but I think that not only the parents but the kids should be able to vote on it. It affects them also. Kids are mentally maturing faster than their bodies. It comes down to this: Parents should be the ones governing their children and teaching them what is and isn't decent in certain situations. Man was not meant to live in large communities. Those large communities are destroying individuals mental archetecture. So, I believe that there should be a consensus taken between what the teenagers want and what the parents want and a middle ground should be found.

You can't leave a freedom of expression decision like this up to the government or a select few people. you will get a prudish and suffocating rule. There should be a national poll where individuals weigh in on the subject and not organizations. This should be free of government and religious influence. The decision affects all kids not just the kids of the religious families. I know that the whole womens lib thing is about not using your body to get what you want, but again, it is nature and the majority of what women have and have achieved was bought on the currency of their sexuality. Denying a teenage girl the right to discover that power is like giving a gun without bullets to a soldier and then sending him into battle.

We need to educate our kids. Teach them to defend themselves and guide them. We don't need to make their home life dictatorial prison camp. It may offend you the way they dress, and in some instances, I think they go too far, but your problem is more with your own restrictive sensibilities that concern for their welfare and safety if truth be told.

Answer 5

I'm 17 and I like that guys think I'm s**y. I can understand your objection to 10 year olds dressing like glamour models but 17 is almost 18. In England where I live the age of consent is 16, so anyone 16 or above should dress as sexily as they want.

Answer 6

Children/teens shouldn't be expressing a 'sexual side'...and no, they shouldn't be wearing very revealing or "s**y" looking clothing. Save the adult attire for when they become adults and the attention the clothing gets isn't inapproprite for the person dressed that way.

Kids are kids...not just small adults.

Answer 7

Yes u r absolutely right. I truely agree with u. By being decently dressed i think v can bring down the crime rate, not fully but yes to some extent.

Answer 8

True, they should be taught modest values.

Answer 9

I believe that clothing totally depends on the environment one belongs to...like if u have a Not Very Free Environment, girls needa wear covered dresses, but if the environment and the mentality of people allows, girls can wear what they like...you don't have the right to take away freedom from girls, why should they suffer if guys don't have the right mentality...???

Answer 10

very TRUE and parents should be whooped for letting them and are only aking for trouble by letting it happen

Answer 11

i dunno......i mean.....well...........lol.......hey heres a 2 yr old in a bikini!!!!!!!!!!

ooooooooooooooooooo..........sexual!

how many think that aint perverted>?

Answer 12

That was a harsh thing to say about men. ha ha

Well, to answer your question, I say young people should NOT show off their body. Personally, I don't like to see it in adults either. It disgusts me. It makes me think that they have no respect for themselves.

Answer 13

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i think women of ALL ages should dress modestly...

Answer 14

i agree with you because people, especially men are very visual beings and we, as women can help them not to commit sin by not wearing skimpy or revealing clothes..this was of dressing will somehow protect us from sexual harrasment. and this will also tell other people that they must respect our body because we ourselves respect it..