I think ghosts are trying to contact me. Not sure if I am supposed to be a medium or something?

Question

Okay, so since I have lived in the house that I live in now, I have this feeling of being watched. I feel it more in my house than anywhere else, but I do kind of have the feeling elsewhere. There are odd occurrences that happen, that may simply be coincidence, but sometimes I am not so sure. Like frequently when I am driving at night, the next street light that I am coming to will go out. I also believe that I see things in my house sometimes that aren't really there. I am not sure if these are spirits or not, but I am kind of afraid to even "ask." I am afraid that if I open up conversation, we may have all kinds of happenings in the house and I live with three other people. I am just wondering how I should go about things. Not sure if I really want to have a saonce or not. Just trying to figure out how to go about things peacefully. I kind of want to help, I am just not sure of what the outcome will be. Please don't bother unless you have a constructive answer to give.

Answer 1

The feeling of being watched is usually just normal paranoia.  Unless you have a stalker.  But that's not too common.

Street lights cycle - they'll be on for a few minutes, go out for a few seconds to re-charge, then do it again.  Many, many people have interpreted this as 'I can control the lights'.  You can't.  Notice how it's always street lights - the only lights you normally encounter that cycle.

We all think we see things out of the corner of our eyes sometimes.  Try getting a cat.  If it's a bug or a rodent, the cat will get it.  If it's a person, the cat will see it.  And if nothing else, you can just assume it was the cat.

That's as constructive as it gets - you're just being paranoid.  No one is watching you and you certainly don't need to pay someone to make random guesses about your life.

Answer 2

First, street lights are on timers. In order to conserve energy, the timer turns them off and on.

Secondly, it sounds like your imagination may be running away with you. If you feel like you are being watched in your house, it could be some old or exposed electrical wiring. Just call an electrician.

My suggestion is to get a Polaroid Instamatic camera. Take some pictures. If you see anything, post them.

Answer 3

these types of things happen to me too but im not all like OMG GHOSTS AND SPIRITS ARE CONTACTING ME!!!!! i think its ur imagination like it is mine.....ignore it and if u r still experiencing that stuff go to a psychiatrist!

Answer 4

Eri is completely wrong. Street lights dont cycle or recharge , what kind of sense is that . You dont recharge when your plugged in , they do however ground out and turn off to cool down from heat. The rest of what she said is about the same flawed ignorant lack of logic.

You do have a tremendous amount of energy that you should ground out before you contact your friends. Try walking barefoot at the beach, in wet grass , sit in a tree , but try to stay barefoot and outsdie as much as you can to get grounded. When you feel a bit more settled try asking the spirits for advice or guidance. Many millionares claim to have these guides and confess it is there guidance that gave them these gifts. Contact me if I can help any more.

Answer 5

I don't understand how the feeling of being watched translates into the possibility that a spirit is trying to contact you.

Street lights cycle off and on.  Odds dictate that every now and then a light will go off as you are approaching it.  But even if your presence did cause it to go out, this doesn't mean a spirit is trying to contact you.

Your eyes play tricks on you.  Happens to all of us.

It seems like you have a pre-existing belief in the paranormal and that perhaps you are superstitious.  As such, anything you perceive to be out of the ordinary is automatically paranormal in nature.  This is what's known as "magical thinking".  (For more about magical thinking, consult Sbrask8.  He's full of it.)  It's quite possible you have a fantasy-prone personality.

Answer 6

Depending upon how old you are, perhaps, you are an indigo child.

If you get an opportunity check out the below site.

//www.soulsolutionshealing.com/indigop...

Here are some things that may sound familiar to you.

-they tend to have psychic or spiritual interest appearing while fairly young - in or before teen years. -Had few if any Indigo role models.

-Have strong intuition.

-Have had psychic experiences, such as premonitions, seeing angels or ghosts, out of body experiences, hearing voices.

-May be electrically sensitive such as watches not working and street lights going out as you move under them, electrical equipment malfunctioning and lights blowing out.

-May have awareness of other dimensions and parallel realities.

Answer 7

Most constructive I can get - forget it!  When there are so many fears the results would be based in fear and Not be very productive.  Street lights going out is considered to be telekinesis.  Look that up for some help in understanding the phenomena.  Spirit in the home is considered 'stuck' and rescue would be a good thought.  Get a good medium to do the job.

Answer 8

If you watch Ghost Hunters on tv at all... high electromagnetic fields emitted by some electrical sources (especially those not functioning properly) can cause feelings of paranoia, being watched, etc. Perhaps there is even an electrical problem in your home that is affecting things in general.

Also, the street lights, because the bulbs they use are so big and burn so hot, they are made to go off at some point and cool down for a little bit.

Answer 9

wow! thats really creepy! i dont know if eri is right or not because one time when i was in my backyard the gate opened and closed all by itself and it was locked! my sister and i ran inside after it had closed! id like to see eri explain that (oh and i know for a fact nobody was by the gate when it opened because my sister and i could see out of it).

Answer 10

The streetlight experience is called SLIders. This link also has something about other odd experiences..like watches stopping etc. Hope it gives you some answers.

http://paranormal.about.com/od/telekines...