My husband and I share ALL the household chores, including yard work. Our house is always immaculate. We both contribute to the monthly expenses as well. He insists that we should also split the expenses 50/50. Here’s the dilemma…he makes 10k+ per month and works 10-13 days per month. I make 3k per month and work a normal 40hr work week (20 days per month). I think it is fair for him to pay 75% while I pay 25% because of the difference in income. This would still leave him THOUSANDS of dollars each month for all the stuff he likes to do and purchases he makes. He has lots of ‘toys’ (quads, toy trailer, cars, Seadoo, etc). I never complain about anything he does or buys because I know we can afford it. We have a substantial amount in savings and investments so we are not hurting for money. He even has a separate account without my name on it and I do not complain. In fact, I’ve seen the statements for this account and he’s got about $25 stashed, aside from our joint savings! If I pay half of the expenses, I would not be able to do anything else. Am I crazy or is he being stingy?
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