I think he might like my friend instead?

Question

so i liked this guy since school started. and i finally got up the courage to talk to him yesterday. we had a nice conversation and hit it off really well. problem is, later on my friend (who kind of liked him too(we both liked him together)) told me that he had asked her to homecoming th day before. I didn't show it, but i was upset. we both liked him together but throughout all of that she acted like she didn't really like him as much as i did. so she says she'll say yes if he keeps talking to her about it because at first she though he was playing.

and today at lunch i saw them walking off together.

i like him, but now that he might be trying to talk to my friend, i think i might have to force myself to NOT like him.

it's going to be hard, but what do you guys think i should do?

Answer 1

Ignore it...

He's not worth losing a friendship over..

Answer 2

Well first, make sure that your friend knows that she is not allowed to 1. Rub it in your face, or 2. Tell him that you like him too. Unless you trust her to already know not to do either. Maybe she didn't do this with the intention of hurting you, but it sucks that she didn't ask you first if you'd mind (if she didn't).

Just make up your mind that you're through with him, and start talking to other guys. Have some fun with it. High school romance rarely lasts forever anyway, so they'll probably break up soon anyway if they end up together.

Good luck :)

Answer 3

Be cool and calm.. There is always some one better.. who knows maybe he will have a hott nice friend for you.. be supportive and happy for them.. good Luck I know its hard

Answer 4

haha your not the only one ive had that problem in the past

personally i think you should just let that go and jus try to make things act normal like not mind them at all and still hang out with both of them cuz the last thing i think u want is to lose a friend jus cuz u both like the same person. what i would do in your position is just befriend him, dont like go for that guy just cuz u like him try to become friends cuz then u can talk to that person often and get more comfortable with him and etc.

good luck with that and i hope nothing bad happens