I think i am bi-sexual.....?

Question

i know you probably won't be able to really help me but i was wondering if anyone had ever thought they were bi or g*y. i'm 20 and i feel like i should have figured this out already but i have been dealing with this for about four years now and it's really starting to effect me. i have never been with a girl, but i'm thinking that i could be truly happy with one. if you have any advice that would be much appreciated.

thank you.

Answer 1

You could be. You could decide that you are bi and look at it this way: you choose your partner based on their character, attractiveness and gender is irrelevant. This way you are open to all options. Sure you can be truly happy with a girl! Why not.

I am happily married now, but there were at least three times that I was seriously attracted to other women. They were just so great (beautiful to me, clever, fantastic personalities)! Life just got in the way... I was always attached to a sweet boyfriend when this happened.  

Answer 2

its not wrong to be g*y or bi-sexual...just try it and see if you like it

just think about it...it cant hurt? right?

Answer 3

You have nothing to lose, just try dating a girl! I wish I would've had it all figured out at 20!

Answer 4

idk maybe u could be bi but its nothing to be ashamed of  being g*y bi or L*****n is normal god did not make any rule about that it just says marriage is between a guy and girl but nothing of vbeing g*y or L*****n

Answer 5

No no advice but you can email me for some chat : )

Answer 6

i emailed u with an answer

Answer 7

I've been experimenting for about six months now, actually, and I've found that the only way to really tell is to go out with a girl.  I'd thought I was bi for a while, but then I finally plucked up the nerve to ask a bi friend of mine out, and I realized after about a month with her that I am most definitely straight.  

Answer 8

dont treat people as s*x tools (some answers here are kinda stupid). anyway, i dont think your bi, i think your L*****n because your more eager and focused on getting girls than guys. just be yourself and someone will come and accept you.

Answer 9

Try some casual dating and see where it goes from there.

Answer 10

I'm 20 too and bi.

I've never been with a girl too, but I find them really attractive. Way more than guys. You don't need to be with a girl to know that you're bi or L*****n. You just have to feel as though you can have s*x or fall in love with them.  

Answer 11

im married and still bi. i love it. if you lived near me id get you off the fense. lol good luck

Answer 12

i used to think i was bi until a girl hit on me  then i knew i only liked BEEF!

Answer 13

Don't worry when the time comes you'll just know it's right. It's hard to describe but it just feels like ..well right. You have plenty of time to figure it out. There's no time limit if it comes to something as important as this.

I'm 18 and I went through quite a difficult time that it affected my health over it. It didn't take me long (like a month or two?)  to come to accept myself that I've always been bi-sexual. The little things added up for me. And now..I still haven't ever had a girlfriend but I'm willing to.

People sort out this stuff at different paces. Not everyone that's LGBT has to be with the same s*x to be considered that. It's just the same with straight people.

At the end of the day don't forget that these are all labels and NOT the sum up of who your really are.

Much Love

xoxo

Answer 14

I think a lot of people will agree that you should try it out.  See how you feel about dating girls or guys, compare them.  See if it sits right with you.

For me, some girls talked to much, some were more affectionate.

Guys, only had one thing in mind really...  (no offense guys! just my experiences)

I made my choice that way.  You should try it out.