I think i am bisexual but i really don't want to be...?

Question

Is it possible that i am bi even though i don't want to be???

Help me!! please!!!

Answer 1

idk but i kinda feel d same way  

Answer 2

How do you think your bi? Just think about THAT. Then think about how you became bi. Do you like guys and girls? If so, your bi.

Answer 3

You are what you are.

I've seen people on this site ask how they can be taller than they are. The answer is  that they can't.

You don't have to ACT on your bisexuality, but it is who you are (assuming you are).

There's nothing wrong with simply being who you are. Trying to be otherwise, or denying what you are are what mess a person up.

Answer 4

Then don't.  It is possible for you to have urges even though you don't want them.  I wish I had no urge to smoke cigarettes but unfortunately I do have the urge again and again, doesn't mean I can't overcome it.  I'm not gonna live in denial and tell everyone I was born with the urge and my DNA makes me smoke.

You can overcome your desires, it is a choice......often times a very difficult battle to fight.

Answer 5

at first, no one wants to be GLBT. I sure didn't and it took me 3 years to get used to the idea that only men interest me in the way that women interest my brother. If you are bisexual, it will take some time getting used to it, but getting used to it is the best thing psychologically for you to do.

Answer 6

In my opinion, being bi/g*y is not a choice. However, embracing it and dating someone of the same s*x IS a choice. Until you know for sure you're attracted to both girls and guys, don't worry so much about it. When you know for sure, and you still don't "want" to be bi, just don't get into a relationship with a girl. I don't think you'll ever be able to not be attracted to girls, though, if you are bi.

Answer 7

What in the world gave you the idea there was any conscious choice about sexual orientation?  

Answer 8

Totally, I mean you've obviously always been with men but are attracted to beautiful women.  I am in the same place.  But instead of fighting it now, I'm going to try it, and if its sooo awful for me then I'll just go back to L*****n p**n and just guys? Best of luck!

Answer 9

uhh i think its normal..i think at some stage in your life your gonna feel attracted to both girls and boys...don't worry...you'll forget about it soon

Answer 10

Don' worry about offending anybody.  Too many prudes out there.

If you are attracted to both sexes, both physically and sexually then yes you might be bisexual.  Have you acted out on you wants?  If so  do you want more?  These are questions you need to ask of yourself.

Embrace who you are and be proud of it no matter what others say.

Good luck

Answer 11

what do u mean u dont want 2 b ? i think u mean u r one but u r afraid of feeling that way. dont  ! u r who u r ! u didnt affend me but if u love other women, dont reject ! go with the flow

Answer 12

If you like both but don't want to be bi, then just date members of the opposite s*x.  Not that hard.

Answer 13

Think of it like this. If you're bi, you like guys and girls. So, if you don't wanna be bi, just go out with guys/girls. No one will know and you'll feel better. I mean, it's not like you're not attract to guys/girls.

Hope this helps.