I think i could be pregnant :(?

Question

oh god.. a boy came on to me @ my mates 15th birthday party, iam turning 16 in 2 months.he came on to me at her house party and i think my coke was spiked! i dont remember much..just him laying on top of me,he was one of my brothers friends about 16, i dont think i struggled but i woke up in her parents bed completely naked! there was sick on the floor, he wasnt there,hed gone but i dont remember hardly ANYTHING from the night before. I feel so sick with worry and i dont want to tell my mum and dad. i feel so ashamed.. can i get the baby aborted if it turns out iam pregnant without telling my mum and dad, i want it aborted v.young or what can i do? this happened about 2 weeks ago. ive been trying to hurt my belly to kill the fetus if its there but i dont know what to do please help me!!

Answer 1

Firstly, hurting your belly will do no good at all. Secondly, I think you need to talk to somebody about what happened to you. It needn't be somebody you know - there are helplines with people who know what they are talking about and can give you really good advice.

Yes, you will be able to get an abortion without your parents knowing but you will need to see the doctor or go to a family planning clinic.

It is possible that you are not pregnant at all. Try and stay calm(ish) and see if your period comes when it is due. If it doesn't then get a pregnancy test.

Answer 2

Firstly the foetus is sitting behind the pelvis so punching your belly will do only you harm, secondly your able to take a pregnancy test. First response is the one your looking to get.

Why didn't you go doctor or a nurse to explain the situation? Or hospital if you think that your drink was spiked, drug rape is what comes to my mind. Tell your parents asap.

Edit - For a girl who is going to an amusement park in oakwood tomorrow, and worried about what to wear to a barn dance and a guy trying to kiss you at a party and you kept pulling away, you sure as h**l have had one h**l of  a week. And now you think you are pregnant? I smell a troll!

Answer 3

pregancy is the least of your worry sweety , you need to go to your gp asap and get a SDT/STI test and get some rape counciling.

you dont need to tell your parents but i would advise you too. you can keep this all to your self but it is completly up to you.

dont let anyone push u into going to the police unless your ready .

email me if you want to , i have experiance. x

ps hitting your belly wont do anything other than give u stomach ache and if u are pregnant dont ruin your life witha  rapists baby go get a abortion and ignor the idoits on here

Answer 4

i your drink was spiked then you will need to contact the police, especially if you believe that s*x was involved.  because you weren't in control of that situation and it is classed as rape. He could have had an STD or anything! Its very important that you get checked out. You don't have to tell your parents, just let a doctor check your well!

and as for your suspected baby... there are lots of couples who want a baby so much... so if you are pregnant then if you don't want your baby, consider adoption.

- but if you must abort then no, your parents will never have to know!

hurting your belly will make no difference... the baby is in a sac will of liquid which protects the baby... you wont have much chance of killing the embryo with it being so small only 2 weeks in!

take a test and go from there!

i wish you all the luck in the world... x

Answer 5

ok first of all hun, it is NOT your fault if your drink was spiked, this boy did a very bad and abusive thing to you, and he could be in serious trouble too because you're underage, you should consider reporting him to the police, and don't worry,they won't be angry with you because this boy did something illegal...

i'd suggest going to speak to a nurse at your local family planning clinic, she'll be able to help you and give you advice and it'll be confidential. She'll explain to you about pregnancy tests etc. and further options if you discover that you are pregnant.

It'd help to put your mind at ease a great deal.

Is there a trusted adult you can talk to? Like an aunt, friend or even a teacher? They would be a great support and could go with you to speak to the nurse...

best of luck hun, i hope it all works out ok for you x

EDIT: hold on! i just had a look at another question of yours from a few days ago and it says you're 14? so either you made a mistake typing or you're lying to us...if you're lying then GROW UP...there is nothing funny about this at all!

Answer 6

If this was only 2 weeks ago hurting your belly wouldn't really hurt something that is minute! Firstly you should speak to the police I would suggest and explain this to your parents. However if this is not an option, wait until your period is due before getting over worried, if you miss your period, do a pregnancy test. if this is positive discuss your options with your GP. they have to be confidential (to a degree) and help you the best way they can

Answer 7

You What...?

Hurt your belly...?

Take a pregnancy test.

Answer 8

Oh wow! You need to tell your parents NOW! If what your saying is correct then you have been raped. This is serious and needs to be addressed immediately. Don't leave it any longer. If you feel you might be pregnant tell your parents and take a test. For your own safety and the safety of other girls you need to act now.

Answer 9

I'm sure your parents wouldnt be too mad, because YOU didnt do anything! YOU WERE RAPED. Call the police! And I'm sure you can get it aborted at Planned Parenthood or something...but think, do you want to kill your baby?

Answer 10

before worryin take a pregancy test. go to your local hosptial with a close mate and ask for one. once you know whats happenin then u can start worryin with all your crazy thoughts! and hurting your self will do no good. and trust me talking to someone older will help you u will feel alot better, it doesnt have to be your mum if u dont feel ready to but im sure you will have an older person in your life u can have a chat to.

Answer 11

So is this the same Kirsty that was so happy and thanking everybody for putting her mind at ease yesterday when she couldn't find her v****a.

Maybe I'm a bit cynical. You can fool some of the people all of the time or all of the people some of the time but you can't fool all the people all of the time.

Get lost Kirsty!!

Answer 12

This isn't true...

Your lieing.

Your fourteen think its cute to joke about something like this. IT isn't this happens to girls all the time...

Answer 13

FIRST....take a pregnancy test...u might NOT be preggaz..

SECOND: talk to a friend and arrange an appointment with the NHS for an aborion....(ONLY if u want to)

THIRD: fakin find that boy and burn him aliive!!!

Answer 14

Im warning you don't try to kill the baby or abort it is wrong you will regret it afterwards so i think you should talk to you parents and see what will happen afterwards.

Answer 15

Heya

Well first things first. Yo need to confront this boy and find out whether he did spike your drink and if he did 'have s*x' with you. You need to tell your parents exactly what happened and then file a report.Then wait until you miss a period (if you do) and if you do take a test. If its positive then you need to work out what to do next. Huting your belly will do nothing except hurt you.

=] x*x

Answer 16

first of all you need to tell your parents if this is true!!! and second you need to find out if your actually pregnant and then make a decision on what to do that is the best thing to do not trying to hurt your stomach

Answer 17

GET A PREGNANCY TEST.

Like, now. Please.

Then post another question and go from there.

Godspeed and all that

xxxxxxxxxx

Answer 18

your probobly not pregnant, if it was 2 weeks ago then you can take a pregnancy test by now

i suggest you tell your parents what happened to call the police for a investigation to see if he did rape you

Answer 19

You were only 14 yesterday, that year passed by quickly

Answer 20

i think you should first get a pregnancy test done . and if you are preggers,then you have to tell your parents about it ASAP. and btw, i think you need to go and tell your brother about what his friend did with you!!

Answer 21

1. you don't even know your pregnant 2. hitting your belly is only hitting yourself 3. do you not care at all about the baby if you were pregnant. Go to the doctor by law the doctor is not aloud to discuss anything about you too your parents without your permission. I suggest you take the doctors advice and not mine or anyone elses. Oh and grow up and face the responsibility that you under take by doing certain actions.

Answer 22

dont kill the baby! talk to u rparents

the babie can feel wat ur doing to him/her

Answer 23

you probably aren't pregnant you would be able to tell on a test by now! and you should tell someone maybe your brother about what his friend didd as although you didnt push him away you are still underage so just try and talk to someone i know its hard but you need to x

Answer 24

I sooo agree with Ange

Answer 25

2days ago you were 14, in another question you were turning 15 in january and now you are turning 16 in september. There is only one expression to use here and that's attention seeker. You should be ashamed of yourself for lying about being "raped" obviously you are a self centred little b***h

Answer 26

Wow.

Well the first thing you do before you attack yourself is to take a PREGNANCY TEST.. you can buy them at walkgreens and ive even seen some at the dollar store.

Next, when you found out your pregnant, know that it is your choice to abort and no one elses. There are laws that protect abortion and things like that. So yes, you can get an abotion without them knowing. The earlier you get it, the cheaper and less emotionally involved you get.

Do not hurt yourself just because you do not want you parents to know. You cannot induce a miscarriage safely all the time.  Take your own health into consideration.

And although no one here has the right to judge you, everyone is entitled to their own opinions. And my opinion, Abortion isn't always the answer. I do understand were your coming from, but next time be careful, becuase your own baby shouldnt have to suffer for mommy's mistakes.

Answer 27

Ok.

Answer 28

you need to confinde in an adult, maybe not your parents but someone close you can talk to and get help with this, go to your local sti/std clinic ask for the whole works as you dont know if he wore a condom or not, pregnancy could be the least of your worries,  get checked out make sure your all ok and they can do a pregnancy test there also. hopefully your period will come soon,

good luck. x

Answer 29

Don't kill your baby. Get 2 pregnancy tests (Maybe out of town) and test. If positive, face the consquences and tell your parents. Then, you can decide your options. Adoption is better than killing your baby. If you have an abortion, it can mess up your body so bad that you can never have children again.

Tell them what happened (Just be brave), exactly as you said here.

Remember, adoption is better than abortion.

Good Luck x*x

Heres a link:

http://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-Teen-Pr...

Answer 30

Holy shizzle what a situation babe.

I think you need to tell your parents about this. Did you drink alcahol at this party or was your drink spiked? If it was then i'd speak to the police too cause this guy can't get away with this. He might do it again. They can hardly be mad at you this boy clearly took advantage of you.

I think you need to be 16 before you can have an abortion without needing signatures and stuff from your parents but im not really that sure about it. Hurting your belly really wont do much other than hurt you its not even the size of a grain of rice its nothing but a chumble of cells at the moment. The longer you leave it the worse it will get. It will be ok your parents will support you.

Answer 31

Call 1-800-395-HELP and talk to a trained, non-judgmental  counselor.  It's free and confidential.  Hopefully, you aren't pregnant.  But if you are, PLEASE tell your parents.  In most states it's illegal to get an abortion without parental permission, but even if you live where it's legal, you should talk to them.  What would happen if you had a complication?  Would you be able to get emergency treatment if your parents were in the dark?  Not fun questions to think about, but you need to.

You also need to talk to someone about the rape.  Going to the police or not is entirely up to you.  I just want you to realize, first and foremost, that it is NOT YOUR FAULT!!!

<3 Kelsey