I think i have social anxiety?any help?

Question

im really wanting to get out more and meet new people. i like the idea of hanging out, but for some reason, im afraid to get too close to people. i think i have social anxiety. but this keeps preventing me from developing close relationships with people. i think i know what may have caused this. my father died when i was a little boy, and i think since then ive been afraid to get to close to people because i was afraid of losing them.

but i dont wanna be like this forever. i need to get out and meet people. i would love to be in a relationship with a woman, but i think the main focus is to meet new friends and not be so nervous. any help? thanks alot.

Answer 1

I'm very sorry to hear about your father and your situation. Maybe you should contact your doctor, or possibly find a counselor for someone to talk to, maybe they can determine the root of the problem and help you work through it so you can live your life!!

Answer 2

My sister had social anxiety when she was young. She was put on anti depressants (which she continued on for several years). She greatly recovered and lives a normal life. My suggestion to you is to see a counselor or doctor. Social anxiety is very common and treatable. I suggest going for it, because it will help in the short term and long run.