I think i like my friend, but she likes another girl, do i tell her?

Question

I've been thinking that I'm a L*****n for a while, and my friend admitted to me that she's bi, and that she likes our friend named Bridget. Well I like Laura, (my friend) and i was going to tell her but now i don't know. If she likes someone else...and also we have the same friends so i dont want her to tell our friends that i'm a L*****n. I'm not ready to come out yet :S. Do i tell her or not??? I'm not even 100% sure i am, but i'm NEVER attracted to guys, but i'm attracted to her...so i'm guessing.... also whenever girls try to kiss me i just do it and it's not gross or anyting..i enjoy it. but when guys try to kiss me i freak out and i'm like "EW GET AWAY" so..

but should i tell her or not? I"m so worried. Should I tell ANYONE? i'm afraid they'd jduge. my friends all said if one of their friends told them they were g*y they wouldn't be friends with them anymore out of "awkwardness". so do i tell anyone or not? I"m so confused, help. I'm 15

Answer 1

If you really like your friend, you better quit "p***y footing" around with her, before she hooks up with Bridget, and you get left behind. Go for the gold, reach for the stars!!! If you want something, go for it. Maybe she's trying to give you a clue. What are you waiting for? Never let love just pass you by.

Answer 2

I thought alot of my friends were gonna dump me when i started coming out....but they didn't. They ended up being fine with it, its not a big deal. So don't worry about the other people. Worry about yourself, tell laura the truth, and then deal with the consequences. Maybe she'll go for you, maybe not. but you will always regret not saying anything at all.