I think i love him but can i trust him ?

Question

i have my ex boyfreind he is in jail now on remand

i think i still love him

and i have been with him since auguat but his freinds says he cheated on me

i got prenant with him and miscariged he wrote to me telling me he wannted me to visit him

but what do i do any sugestions ???

Answer 1

Sounds like you should make him apart of your past.  Move on.

Answer 2

Go visit him. so that way you'll see him again and see if the feelings still there. and he can tell you anything meaningful that he hasent been able to

Answer 3

First of all i am so sorry about your loss, a miscarriage is hard trust me i know the feeling personally. leave this toknowledgee, find out if he was truly cheating on you and he was move on, if not go visit him. Either way he is in jail and you need to move on with your life. There is always a reason for everything, you miscarried your child and he is in jail because it isnt meant to be.  

Answer 4

why would you want this man?  love is not enough to make a successful marriage, and the fact that you love him doesn't change the fact that he's been in jail and that most of his friends know he's cheated on you.  there's a good chance he just wants to see you because none of his other honeys would come visit him in the joint.

Sweetie, let him go.  Love is not all there is - you need to CHOOSE a mate wisely, think about whether he can be financially independent and help you raise a family.  Don't choose helplessly - being in love is easy - choose a good man and be in love with HIM.

Answer 5

YOU SHALL NEVER TRUST ANYBODY INCLUDING YOUR FRIENDS WHO TOLD YOU HE CHEATED ON YOU. IF HE IS IN JAIL; HOWEVER, HE DOES NOT WORTH YOUR TIME. DROP IT. FIND SOMEBODY ELSE.

Answer 6

First off your thinking and not knowing. He probably wants you to visit because he is in jail. My advice would be to keep it friendly and you can care about him but it sounds a little messy to have a relationship.

Answer 7

just go see him...

Answer 8

If he can't earn your full trust then you shouldn't be in a relationship with him.  

Without trust you'll never be at ease. If he isn't anything but 100% dependable then you'll always be vulnerable.

You might love him but in the end this relationship could be nothing but painful. If he can't get his life on the right track then you should move on.

Answer 9

it doesn't seem like you know him well enough to decide for yourself whether he is a bad person or not. You should get more details from his friends about the affair, and ask him if it's true or not. His friends may just be trying to sabotage the relationship, they might be lying.  

Answer 10

if his own friends told you he cheated im almost sure he did because usually they own friends dont tell u that kinda stuff

you can go visit him and c wat he got to say but i believe you deserve better because if u would to have kids 2getter u wouldnt want ur kids to grow up wit their dad in nd out of jail so do wats best 4 u try to follow ur mind a lil harder thn ur heart i kno its hard i been there

my ex went to jail nd 2more time safter that wit in like 4years...