I think i may be pregnant please help!!??

Question

i got drunk last night and me and my bf had s*x for the first time

i dont think we used a condom i'm 19 i cant be a mom im freaking out cause i have college to start and i cant have a baby please some one give me advice i didnt have any birth control on my either and i know 19's too young to drink its just thati got caught uo in the moment please give me tips on what to do my mom and dad are out of town so i cant get any advice from mom

Answer 1

See your GP immediatly and explain what happened.  Ask for the morning after pill.  Do it now!

Answer 2

Welcome to adulthood, little lady.

You screwed up, literally and figuratively.

Now you have to live with the concequences. There's nothing we can do for you. Either you're pregnant, or you're not. You wouldn't know that you were pregnant until after you miss your period.

Good luck. Don't be such a s***w up next time and buck up -- learn to be a responsible adult.

Answer 3

Ok I'm in australia and we have a thing called the morning after pill...u can take it like 72hours after having s*x an it stops the sperm from doin something....not sure if ud have it where u r....u can get it from pharmacys...haha n I'm 19 n have a baby now, its not the worst thing that can happen, an who cares that u got drunk, it something 19yr do, just remember the consequences that come along with it or the stuff that may happen, if it does turn out ur preg, figure it out wen it comes hey, don't let anyone tell u what to do, if you want an abortion have one, its your body and only your body.....I really hope everything works out

Answer 4

Obviously there are people who are biased in the world and accuse you of murder if you abort a child or anything, which is stupid, really.

Relax. Morning after pills need to be used as soon as possible, and not two days later.

If you find yourself pregnant, you have choices of abortion, have the baby and put it up for adoption, or have the baby and keep it.

It ENTIRELY depends on YOUR morals and YOUR views, not some random person who's biased on Yahoo Answers. We're not here to start a debate on Pro-Life and Pro-Choice; the point is to answer your question and leave it at that.

Answer 5

first of all, calm down.  You dont know for sure.  You have a chance that you are not. a second chance to turn your life around and wise up.  If not.  If you find yourself pregnant please dont do anything drastic.  There are people that raised you up and that care about your welfare.  They will not want you to harm yourself or your baby.  

I could share with you.. my experience of telling my parents.  I had the fear of God with my dad.  We had a explosive relationship.  I did NOT want to tell him.  I was sure he would kill me.  I figured i could go to my mom.  When i called home.  I did not want to face them...  i was so scared.  I was prepared to talk to mom.  Dad answered.  I swallowed and just went ahead and told  him.  Nothing prepared me for what was to come.....

'Are you okay?'

Stop the page. what?!  my heart skipped a beat.  That was the beginning of his turn around.  He rebuilt the broken bridges in our relationship... even to the point he built us an apartment and helped us get set up.  My mom however... surprised me too!  She slamblasted me with her rage on the phone and was so hurt!  Looking back.. she wanted the world for me and was disappointed and hurt.   But that was it.  I had to become an adult and make adult choices.  I had to be a parent and make choices that effects my child and our new family.  I chose to marry a man that i was ready to toss.  I gave him the chance to be a father.  Through the thick and thin.. its been a helluva ride.  four kids later... i still havent gotten my degree yet.  after my baby gets a bit older, i will finish what i started ten years ago....  my kids are my world.  they depend on us to make good choices.  Are you prepared to parent?  You did it.  If you are not, are you going to murder a child that didnt choose to be born?  Please think before you act.  give your child a fighting chance.. if you dont want to raise your sweet child that you actually might be a great parent to...please allow someone else who dreams of having a baby get the chance.  

19 is not too young.  i was 20.  its just a change in plans.  its the harder path, but... its a honor to be a parent.  take this seriously.  dont be afraid to talk to your parents.  they might be disappointed, but they still love you and care about you.  theyve spent 19 years looking after you and raising you up... give them a chance to shine.  give them a chance to cool off after the shock of the news...  wait until you are for sure.  no need getting their panties in a bundle.. hopefully you will get a second chance to do it right!  dont murder your first born, please!

be asking if this bf of yours is ready to make a life commitment.. if he is ready to be a father.  find out how he will play a role in your future with your future children.. be asking questions.  dont go in blindly with your cares to the wind... or you will be limping later wondering what happened and how you got there.  good luck.

ps....God is a great one to turn to.  He has sage advice to help you discern a good mate and how to be a good parent.. and how to address lifes issues.  please give Him a chance too!  

i will pray for you and your situation.  seek a church and see if they can guide you in such a tough time.

Answer 6

First find out if you're pregnant. Then it's totally your choice if you wanna give it up...  

Answer 7

There is the morning after pill at walgreens that you'd have to go get RIGHT NOW if you believe in that sort of thing. I don't. It might make you sick.

You can generally get pregnant between day 9 and day 17 (depending on when you ovulate, depends on your schedule, search "ovulation calculator") with day 1 being the first day of your period.

Answer 8

I'm 19, and i am starting my 36th week of pregnancy and i am still doing school although i have to take a break for one semester its still going to get done, but you don't even know if your pregnant yet.  So you should find that out first, and then you have two options, keep it or don't, i personally didn't want an abortion, but life still goes on and school is still possible pregnant or not.

Answer 9

get an abortion, and save the fetus.

put it in a jar.

srsly, abortions are waaay underated.

Answer 10

lol i love yahoo answer.. ANYWAY like i always say "falcon punch, problem solved!" but people always give me thumbs down. So my serious answer would to go see a physician....

Answer 11

if you have confidence and if you don't feel pity on your baby..just take an abortion!!!

if you really really want too..

that's the only way i know..

also get an advice to your relatives or consult a doctor..

Answer 12

Uh oh.

Well, you'll definitely NOT know yet. . . whether you are pregnant or not.

If you miss a period.  Take a First Response pregnancy test and go from there.  Be more careful next time.

Answer 13

Ok Sweetie, its ok. i know how it is to get caught up in the moment and do stupid things with out thinkin. EVERYBODY on here has done something stupid at sometime in their lifes. So for a real answer. if u go get the Morning After Pill RIGHT NOW u should be ok. but u have to do it right now.

Best of luck:-)