I think i messed up? maybe?

Question

I like this guy, and i hung out with him yesterday, but in a big group. when we were talking he asks if i want to walk with him to get a drink, which is like 5 minutes from where we were, i invited my two friends to come with me, haha dumbbb. they said no so we left but they ended up coming. Maybe he wanted to be alone? i'm so confused.

Answer 1

Situations may not always turn out the way you want them to, and you are almost guaranteed to find a better way to have handled a situation after-the-fact.

It's totally okay. While you don't want to seem desperate, if you're already familiar with and communicative with this guy, it's totally okay to talk to him and drop a casual apology for the misinterpretation of signals.

Say with a breezy air, "Hey, I'm not sure what happened the other night, but I'm sorry if my friends coming along was a little more company than you bargained for..." (or however you would naturally word this).

You don't have to tell him that you wanted to be alone, and you don't really have to find out if he wanted to be alone, just acknowledge that you don't want to disregard his preferences for more intimate company.

If he's worth it and smart enough to be a catch, he'll get what your saying and you may just be planning some real alone time soon. If just talking to him about it scares him off, look for a guy with a little more backbone. It will be worth it in the end.

Communicate. It's the real secret to creating a great relationship.

Answer 2

OF COURSE HE DID.........WELL THE NEXT TIME HE INVITES YOU OUT EXCEPT AND LEAVE FRIENDS OUT

Answer 3

he wanted to b alone wow

u shuudve taken the ALONE part

Answer 4

He probably did want to be alone if was directing the statement towards you. You can make it up by asking him if he wants to catch a movie or something with the word "together" in the sentence to imply that you want to be alone.

Answer 5

yeah, he wanted to be alone.

next time ur in a group with him ask him to go on a walk.

Answer 6

He probably did want to be alone. But don't worry about it. Learn from your mistake, and next time, take your opportunity to be alone with him, since you like him anyways.

Answer 7

Maybe he was thirsty

Answer 8

Next time DON"T invite your friends bad move. If he does like you he may think you don't trust him. Next time you see him act friendly and see if he takes another chance or not.

Answer 9

dont worry

yeah, maybe he wanted to be alone

but he might think your playing hard to get :]

next time he is hinting to go somewhere private

dont invite your buds and see what happens

you have nothing to lose

best wishes <3

Answer 10

Yup you blew it but now try to get him alone and see what he does

Answer 11

You were right. You blew it:) But the opportunity will present itself again.

Answer 12

Whatever, don't dwell.  If he likes you he'll get over it and you'll get another chance.

Answer 13

no it's too soon to tell maybe you will have more time with him later if he is really interest.

Answer 14

Well from what you say it definitely sounded like he just wanted to get a drink with you alone. If he had really wanted an open invitation for other people to come he probably would have announced the question to the whole group. It's understandable that you got confused though. All girls do when crushing after a guy :)

Answer 15

No you were right to ask your friends to join you and right of your friends to not let you go with a guy alone. If he wants to be with you make him work hard to be with you. He should ask you out on a date if he wants to be alone with you. He should be happy that you were with him at all. Don't second guess yourself. Be confident and know that you are worth a guys attention and that if he REALLY cares, he'll be back! =)  

Answer 16

if he asked you then yea he wanted to go alone and maybe ask you out or see whats up so the next time this guy says walk with him somewhere you go with him and just forget your friends for the moment lol

Answer 17

Yea the guy probably wanted to be alone. But maybe you should invite him some where but just make it you & him. :)

Answer 18

I'll bet if he did want to be alone, you'll get another chance with him, and this time you will not invite the others.  If it's meant to be, it will happen again :)  Good luck !

Answer 19

Well, take it as a lesson, so next time when he asks you only, do not ask the rest along. Don't worry, i'm sure if he's into you, he would ask you again, no worries!  

Answer 20

not sure if you messed up or not. but usually when someone wants to walk away with you off to the side, they want to be one on one. unless he can't be trusted, the friends should not have been asked to go. better luck next time!

Answer 21

Heck yes he wanted to go with you "alone"  otherwise he would have said do you and some of your friends want to come .....DUH!!!!!

Answer 22

i think he wanted to be alone with you. he was probably trying to think of a way to get you to himself. that's very cute. you owe him, next time ask him if he can walk you somewhere, just to return the favor.  

Answer 23

that's no big deal, he'll aske u out in other times if he's really interested

Answer 24

He probably wanted to be alone with you, but I don't think your chances are ruined or anything just because your friends came along. If he likes you, he's likely to try again. Try to take the hint next time though. lol.

good luck.

Answer 25

im a guy and if i asked a girl to come walk with me its probably cuz i want to be alone with her. so yea you ****** up lol. im sorry to say it but he did want to be alone with you. you should call him and ask if he wants to hangout. go to a movie or something