I think i might be bi but i dont want to be what do i do???

Question

i dont want to be bi cuz its nothing personal towards bis it just facing my family and friends would be too too much!!!! its cuz guys at my school are all ugly and like theyre immature and they turn me off but girls are so hot like theyre gorgeous!!! i cant stop looking at peoples b*****s and buts (girls) and like if a girl is showing a guy her thong in the hallway at school (yes they do that lol) im like so turned on and wish theyd show me lol... oh god how embarassing... and like even with my best friend i sometimes want to kiss her and stuff but i dont becasse 1)she thinks im straght and 2) it would be awkward after we were finished i mean ive been asked out by guys b4 but always said no because they were ugly and dtupid and ive never kissed a guy or a girl because i dont know witch one i want to kiss :S i just dont want to/ CANT face the fact of telling people that im lez/bi etc!! :S please help

oh ya and (i know really embarassing but maybe itll help you help me...) i watch p**n sometimes and i only like whatching lexbians like guy and girl doesnt turn me on its like weird.

Answer 1

omg im going through the exact same thing!only i dont wanna tell people im bi cos it would be so! embarassing, and say if it just turns out to be a phase i'll seem like an idiot.if i were you id get with a guy first, c how u like that. if its c**p find a girl, (not your best friend-i learned the hardway) liss her, and if thats better, well you know your answer. but id delay telling parents for a few years until your completely sure.maybe just tell a close friend? or keep it between you and the girl. good luck!(by the way i know what you mean with the girl on girl p**n thing!)

Answer 2

It is perfectly natural, ok, and wonderful that you are bi; but what you need to work on first and foremost is accepting yourself as you are. When you are ready, don't be afraid to explore sexuality and pleasure with whomever you choose. Life is short. Love who you will and be happy.

Answer 3

WELL iF UR Bi YOU CANT FiGHT iT JUST LET iT BE. AND FiND A WAY 2 TELL UR FAMiLY!!! GOOD LUCK!

Answer 4

i kind of know how you feel. my parents are totally against me now that they know. you don't have to come out to anyone....but if you have

something with a girl it might get out. not trying to make you feel bad

but maybe you should just stick to watching p**n...what I'm trying to say is if it bothers you both ways maybe you should be solo until your s situation gets  better.

Answer 5

i think your just confused like i was i mean i used to just think boys were so nasty, but in my opinion just try to talk to boys for me it was a mind set thing like i feel like i found a reason to just not look at boys and i liked girls but never had s*x with one cause i didn't know what i was and to be honest i still dont how bout it may sound weird but have s*x with both sexes and see which one you like better.

Answer 6

I'm practiacally in the same position as you. I think you're bicurious. You haven't met an attractive man yet so you can't really call yourself a L*****n. Ireally think you should let one of your friends know that you're confused. If they are real friends, they will help you.