I think i might be depressed but idk?

Question

Well im 14 and i think im depressed but i dont know if i really am

Ive looked at some site where they say if u are dizzy or headaches and backaches

and i have both of those

When i wake up i dont really feel like getting out of day for the day

Im not doing anything during the day and im just sitting around a lot being bored

There times where i dont feel like living cuz i feel im not needed in life

Ive been told by my mom that my grandparents think i might be because i dont talk much when im around them or other ppl that ARE NOT my friends

Any help?

Answer 1

I think you are depressed.  Not because of the headaches or backaches or dizziness, but because you do not want to get out of bed and you feel not needed.

Go to a psychiatrist and see.  They can give you medication and recomend therapy if you need it.

I have bipolar disorder.  I was very depressed at first.  I was in so much pain.  I was praying for god to take me off of this earth and end this pain.  Just going for help helped me.  I felt better because I reached out.  When I got medication I felt much better.  I realized that I have a right to feel good.

I wish you the best.

Answer 2

I know how you are feeling. My cousin who's living with us for the summer has these exact 'symtpoms' as you. He is 13. I don't think you are depressed, but your thought of you not needed in life gets me worried a little bit. I went through this 'lazy' phase myself, when nothing feels worthy of me getting up to do or getting too excited about. Actually, my cousin told me the exact words too. I told him (just like I will tell you) to find something that you are interested in. It sounds easier than said, but when I was young, I watched soap, it kinda lets me have sth. to look forward to daily. As for my cousin, he found out he like riding his bike alone. Be patient, and optimistic, and this phase will be over before you know it! Smile!

Answer 3

You sound like me, I highly doubt you are depressed darling.

Answer 4

Step 1: Ensure your emotion is controlled daily. Don't over reacted, stay calm and don't get worry easily

Step 2: Think before your action. Don't repeat her past experience on herself. Remind herself from time to time.

Step 3: Be confident to yourselves. Remember everyone is the winner. "Only One sperms out of millions fertilize an egg"

Step 4: Get a group of close friends to share your experience and get some activities that would occupied your time

Step 5: Increase scope of life. Meaning that she should involve in more social activities like dancing, outing and others.

Step 6: Put a rubberband on the wrist. If there is a negative thought, Tighten the rubber band and release it. Hence the effect of the pain would be able to reduce the possibility of negative thought.

Good Luck.

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Answer 5

All of us have the feelings you describe at one time or another, but whether or not you are depressed depends on how strong the feelings are and how much of the time you have them.  Sometimes the people around you (parents and grandparents, as well as friends) can see more about you than you can, so consider their comments.  Maybe they've noticed a change in you, or are concerned about what they see.

The only way to know if you are truly depressed is to talk with a counselor or doctor.  They can ask you questions that will help you figure out if you really are depressed.  Even quizzes on the internet are not as accurate as talking with a professional person.  Just walk in and talk to your school counselor or ask your mom to make an appointment with your doctor.  It will only take a few minutes, and either way, you'll feel better afterward.

Answer 6

Thats how i felt when my heart was broke .Maybe you r looking 4 a love life that u cant find

Answer 7

It sounds like you are. As far as your physical symptoms I don't know if they are related to that or not  but I would do some research on depression and also go see a Dr.

try these sites

http://www.depression.com/

http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/men...

http://www.webmd.com/depression/mental-h...

http://www.webmd.com/depression/guide/wh...

http://www.webmd.com/depression/default....

http://www.webmd.com/depression/tc/depre...

http://www.webmd.com/video/nemeroff-depr...