I think i still have feelings for my exboyfriend!??

Question

i broke up with my couple months ago (for a good reason)...

and i said we would still be friends.

he started talking to me.. recently and asked how i was doing and stuff..

and he still likes me alot

but he has been talking to this girl emylee and flirting.. and said she was hot.

and might ask her out!

i still kinda like him, but i dont want to ho out with im..

but i dont want him to go out with someone else either... i will get jelous and sad.. i think.

what should i do?

tell him i still like him?

what should i tell him!

(by the way: he calls me pretty and beautiful)

he calls the other girl hot.

mean anything

haha okay

-thanks

Answer 1

If he is with another lady leave them alone.  she might slap you and tell you to stay away.  There are plenty of nice single guys.  Leave him alone. Your interest is wrong!  Have some self respect!

Answer 2

let him know how you feel before its too late, meaning that he's moved on to this other girl!! call him!

Answer 3

i think there is a reason why y guys are exes.and to be honest when u try to go out with ure ex it usually doesn't work because problems from the previous relationship  come up and stuff. so its just better not to go out with ure ex.  

Answer 4

well I think if u still care about him u should tell me how  u feel and maybe he will understand before it is to late but if it do not work then your next best idea is to move on with someone that is in a beter level than him

Answer 5

All you can do is try to get over it. I know it always seems like you've got some feelings for him, but you would just have to try really hard to totally forget about it and if not, you should try to get back with him if he's still interested. Anyway, this all depends on why you guys broke up.

Answer 6

Personally, you cant stop a guy from doing something they actually want to do. I say let it go because  its not worth hanging around an

ex-boyfriend if all he is going to do is tell you hes going to go out with someone. Its going to make you uncomfortable and jealous....................................

Its better you guys keep it as friends and nothing more. Find another boyfriend who will have feelings for you and only for you not for another girl name emylee.

Answer 7

Whoaa, de ja vu.

The EXACT same thing just happened to me this month. No kidding. Everything just how you said it. So here's what happened with me;

Our break up was just because we never got to see each other, so that may be a bit different than yours. But I was so depressed because he was gone. And so recently he started talking to me again, asking how I was and stuff, and he also was saying things like "Remember when this happened?" and then he would explain a memory that made me laugh. I saw on his Myspace that he was getting really close to this one girl..and for some reason that bothered me.

So then he asked to meet and speak with me in person, so we did just yesterday. We talked everything over, and the truth is, he wasn't over me either. And he was getting jealous with the guys I have been talking to. So I just told him about my feelings, and next thing you know, he pinned me to the ground and kissed me like old times.

Now we're back together and I'm so happy. Everything is starting to look up, all because I took the risk to tell him how I feel. So if you're getting jealous/upset over a girl he is talking to, then yes, that does mean you still have feelings for him. And the only good thing to do would be to tell him in person about it. He could be going through the same phase.

Good luck!

Answer 8

i would say let him know how you feel before its too late. I made the mistake broke up with my ex a couple of months ago and waited too long to tell him and now hes already with the gurl he was "talkin" to. So make sure u let him before he tries to pursue something with someone else

Answer 9

was your relationship strong while it lasted? if it was, then id consider telling him the truth, that you like him. he probably feels the same way. and when somebodys rly in love, they dont tell u that ur hot, they say ur pretty or beautiful :] so i think he might just b talking about this emily girl to make you jealous..so i say go ahead and tell him how u feel! good luck