I think i want to die...?

Question

I know i'm going to get some mean answers to this but, i really just want to die. I'm 14 and i think i'm just about done living. It's not like anyones going to miss me. I tried cutting, but that's just crazy to me.

So, if there's any advice anyone of you people on here with a heart can give me to enjoy life a little bit more, please share. :(

Answer 1

Hey cheer up you are only 14 you have so much living left to do .

WE all experience very rough and difficult times  believe me I know when it seems like life just won't get better it seems like there is nothing left to live for ...but it is just a rough patch  and you will get over it . If you truly need someone to offer advice or someone  to listen email me . I will be glad  to help .([e-mail])

Answer 2

ur only 14 & its normal to feel like ur whole world doesnt matter. everyone goes through that. im not telling u this to make u feel better but things get soo much better later on. i promise. u can look forward to doing things u want to do like traveling or skydiving or even falling in love. if u want to u can start a family one day. there are so many things to look forward to in ur life. dont give up on it yet...

Answer 3

It's just your hormones honey,it will pass. I had a 13 year old,did everything i could to make and keep her happy,she did not respond well to that, all i could do was try and keep a good mother daughter relationship with her. I constantley checked in on her,because she was ALWAYS in her room. She slowly came out of that funk,and now she is 21,married(to a minister). I don't know if you believe in GOD, but prayer and having a close and personal realationship with the LORD helps,HE will listen when nobdy else will,and HE will SURELY guide you through it, i promise you!! You will soon come out of it more blossomed,feeling secure,protected and and a feeling of BELONGING! Love you,and may God Bless You

Answer 4

TELL AN ADULT

PEOPLE WILL MISS YOU

I KNOE HOW YOU FEEL

YOU NEED TO GET HELP

I DID

AND I FEEL MUCH BETTER NO MATTER HOW SAD I AM I DONT WANNA DIE OR TRY TO KILL MYSELF

I HOPE THINGS LOOK UP FOR YOU

Answer 5

Go to a doctor.  You don't have to feel this way, you don't have to go it alone, and you CAN enjoy life.  This sounds like depression, and it's likely that it can be treated just like any illness.  If you don't have a doctor, see if there is a free clinic for women or girls in your community.  They know how to deal with these problems. They may even be able to help you feel better the first time you talk to them on the phone.   Take care, and don't give up.  You will get through this.

Answer 6

Trust me Dear, we all feel like that sometimes.  Things will get better, you just have to start looking on the upside of things.  Do things that make you smile.  Talk to your friends.  The feeling WILL pass and you'll look back on this and wonder what in the world you were thinking!  =]

Answer 7

My daughter just turned 13. In her 13 years on this earth she was abandoned by her father 3 times. She has been teased her whole life about her freckles, and now because of her length. It took me years to finally let her realise that to me and to God she is the most beautiful person!!! After all this she is still enjoying life. And she wants to become a chef one day and tour the world. Her only goal right now is to please me and make sure that I will be proud of her one day. All I can say is go to a clinic as soon as possible and tell them exactly how you feel. And if they put you on medication, use it!!!! My daughter can not cope without her medication. She is on Prozac which seems to do her the world of good. I'm not saying that drugs are good, but if you are depressed and want to die and Prozac's keep you from doing that and helps you to enjoy life again. Why not??? All the best of luck and remember that there is always light at the end of the tunnel. It won't always be like this. Try and set a goal for yourself and try to work towards it. Just think of how good you are going to feel when you accomplish that goal!!! You go and conquer the world, girl!!!! :D

Answer 8

Your 14 , you have a whole life ahead of you .. Stop being so stupid & immature . Grow up , I'm not trying to be mean , but it's the truth.

Answer 9

I think you should go to a councilor or something

Answer 10

please please please dont ever say you want to die!

your mum and dad will miss you so much you dont undersatnd how much they would suffer.

your friends will miss you.

your only 14 once you have finished school you have so much to look forward to.

travel the world !

get married!

have kids!

Answer 11

ok in all honesty.. it isnt worth it.

im 19. i used to cut. i have tubes in my arms from it and it is the one thing i regret the most in my life. dont do anything stupid. it honestly isnt worth it. thankfully they saved me and i am now married and have been for about a year and trying to start a family. being young and dumb is normal but good lord please dont do it.

and i was doing sports had plenty of friends.. people say it makes a difference but i know it doesnt.

life is the most beautiful gift. youll understand.

Answer 12

I'm 15 and I'm going through the same thing. Life seems pointless, everyones against you, you never feel good enough...I know what you're going through.

I cut and it does help a little. But the physical pain only lasts for so long, then you're left to dealt with the emotional pain, so its not that much help.

When I first started going through my tough times, suicide seemed like the best alternative. Dying seemed like the easiest thing to do.

But its not AT ALL!

Theres no easy way to commit suicide, you'll suffer horribly. Almost every alternative is going to hurt like h**l...So I wouldnt do it.

And besides, think of your family and friends. Think of how much they'll suffer if you leave them. It's really not worth it...

If you need to talk more, you can always email me (:

Answer 13

i don't actually think you want to die

wanting to die is when your life has reached rock bottom and you can't do anything about it

you are still young, you have a lot of time to figure things out

don't lose hope on life because life hasn't given up on you

if you don't like the way your life is... then change it and do something about it, because you can

Answer 14

Don't do it. Am 14 too Sometimes I feel like that but its not worth it. Even if no one cares abt you still don't do it. Just live your life as it is things will get better at some point.. Live for you and no one else

I really don't know what to tell you

Answer 15

I have this too.

Please, don't kill yourself. =[

Your family will miss you, and your friends.

You should see a therapist, and/or tell someone right away.

Later you'll think back on this, and be happy you didn't.

Best of wishes. =]

-Hunter

Answer 16

You are so young still, and there is a lot left to earn. I felt the same at 14. But you know what? There's no sense in ending it until you give it your all. Life is good and wonderful, but only if you make the most of it. I would talk to a councilor at school, or maybe a teacher that you are on good terms with. They can help you with these problems.

You can do whatever you want in life. You can be a junkie and sell your body, or you can choose to go to school and college and make something of yourself. You can do anything! Just remember that you are young, and at this point in your life things are getting very confusing. Just have patience. It gets better.

Answer 17

i used to cut myself.. as well.  think of positive stuff.your only 14 u havent even really began life.. stop thinking negative.. and yes people will miss you. family, friends..goodness .. i think the same thing sometimes.,, but overall  its not as bad asyou make it out to be

Answer 18

Depression is a real disorder with real causes and real treatment.  Teens seem especially prone to it, but really it can come at any age. Tell your mom or other trusted adult what you told us here and ask to see a doctor.   It's not a mental problem, but a physical problem that can respond very well to treatment.  A combination of counseling and anti depressant medication can be lifesaving.   Give it a shot - what do you have to lose?  You have your whole life to gain!  Life really is a lot of fun when you are not dragging around a heavy rock around your neck.

Answer 19

talk to your friends more,get some hobbies,join a club/sport/team do stuff to keep you occupied take walks on the bach go to the park