I think i want to have s*x?

Question

Im 15 and I want to have s*x is this normal? Ive always wanted to wait untill it is legal and was planning on when i am 16 but I really dont want to wait that long!

What is wrong with me is it really wrong for me to want this? I dont even have a bf at the moment but i dunno i do want to do it!

Its just that im afraid a little bit that it would hurt and a but nervous but i feel totally ready and its a natural thing!

I dunno i just feel frustrated! and please no nasty aswers please this is serious and no i am not gonna save myself for marriage xD

Thanks I just feel like a freak is it wromg for me to feel this at 15?

Answer 1

I'm not sure what you are looking for as an answer but I'd guess that 95% of people from 13 to 90 WANT to have s*x. So don't get upset about those feelings. Feelings are neither right nor wrong - what you do (behavior) because of those feelings IS right or wrong.  If you're just FEELING driven - that's very normal. Whether you actually do something is a decision that shouldn't be rushed into.  Entering into a sexual experience can be as special or as mundane as you make it.  If you rush into it just to experience the feeling without finding a special person to be your partner - you can feel used or you can feel trashy/hedonistic for using someone else that way.   If you rush into it with an unfamiliar virtual stranger - you may walk away with herpes or AIDS. (Have you read that the newest trend is that AIDS is becoming a HETEROsexual disease like it primarily is in Africa).  How 'd you like to be 16 years old with AIDS or herpes (also incurable) or even just the possibility that your partner will brag it all around and your reputation will overnight changed to "that s**t" ?   s*x with someone that you love and that you trust loves you can be wonderful.  But honestly, masturbation is more pleasurable and secure than s*x with any indiscriminate "p***s owner".   Treat yourself with respect and make it special.  s*x and life in general is as meaningful or as meaningless as you make it.  What care you approach this decision can affect how much you enjoy s*x for the rest of your life.

Answer 2

dont have s*x at 15. wait till your 17 or 18. or even better wait until the right person comes along!!! it will be much more special. and you can get pregnant and get an std. i mean think about it... have some common since. are you really ready to do something like that? you dont think you would regret it??? i think you should really think about this. you need to wait till your older

Answer 3

It's normal, but I suggest not acting on those impulses just yet.  You're so young and you'll probably regret doing anything too soon and realizing after the fact that you're not ready.

I waited until I was eighteen, with my long-term boyfriend, and it was still emotional for me.  I don't question that I was ready; I was.  But I can just imagine how awful it would've been afterward if I hadn't be ready.  It was bad enough when I was.

s*x isn't fun, to be honest.  It's good when you're with someone you love, and are compatible with, but it's painful and awkward and it's worse if you're doing it with someone you don't know too well.

So anyway, it's normal to have an interest in this, but make sure you're ready before you do anything you might regret.  Don't act on impulses.  Make sure you know how to say no if you get put in a situation and realize it's not what you want.

And make sure you always be safe and use protection whenever you do have s*x.