I think im in love with my moms boyfriend.....?

Question

im 17, And my mom(who is 33) has been dating this guy(who is 27) for a while now like 2 years and hes been such a part of my life hes become my best friend i think and my mom works nights so its always me and him and we watch tv and just chill but i think i want more.........should i talk to him about it or what should i do??

Answer 1

DO NOT act on your feelings.  Why would you want to hurt your mom like that.  If they are living together then she must really care for him and it would hurt her a lot if you went after her man.  

Answer 2

Dont even think about it... This is your mom and she might be very hurt. PLus you are 17 and maybe he is nice to you because he sees you as nothing but his gf's daughter...Plenty of other fish in the sea. just dont shop in your mom's part of it...

Answer 3

well, that depends how much you care about your mom.

Answer 4

It might hurt your moms feelings if you go out with him. Wait intil it is over. I think it is a little weird though that you are inlove with your moms boyfriend. You need to find out though if he likes you.

Answer 5

First of all it is illegal (you are a minor and he is an adult).   Would you really like to see him go to prison for 10 years?

Quit hanging out with him.  That is where the real problem is.  

Answer 6

some times, people get there feelings twisted, like since hes the man figure in your life you may be getting it twisted. But he is an adult, and your a child, find a nice boy your age to date, you'll save yourself alot of trouble. let him be a good figure in your life, but once you cross certain lines, you cant go back. good luck

Answer 7

NO, no do not hang around him often ?  bad ideal !  you,re gonna hurt both your mom and him .  maybe yourself too ?  

Answer 8

I think you need to start hanging out some people who are your own age.  Find yourself a boyfriend and forget about your mothers boyfriend.  Your mom would be really upset if she knew this.  You are not l8 and this could get this man in a lot of trouble if he responded to you .  He could go to jail for a long time .  Stay away from him as much as possible and find some other interest .  Good Luck

Answer 9

wow are you serious? Don't do it.