I think im losing my friends :(?

Question

It all started today because i wasnt at school. Theres 4 of us girls who are always with each other and today 2 of us were off. We didnt plan it like that but the 2 that are left didnt really get on.

Well they get on but one of the girls think shes better than everyone else and tries to hang out with more popular people.

The only girl that i actually like and want as a friend is the other one who was off with me today. We have been friends since high school began but lately we havent been as close as this is because 2 other girls have started hanging out with us and we dont get any time to just talk by ourself.

Today i was off and i went online and i found that one of the other 2 girls was online too (this is the one that doesnt think shes popular, but shes still a *****) and then she told me to get to school because she didnt have anyone to talk to.

I said no because i wasnt well and she went 'fine then **** off' then went offline. I came back online ten minutes later and i found her and my best friend online together and i talked to my best friend and she ignored me. Now shes talking to me but only one word answers...

I dont want to say anything to her incase we fall out because i only actually have these 3 other girls to talk to at school and if i fall out with them i wouldnt have anyone to talk to.

What do i say to them tomorrow at school? I know for a fact that one of the girls talk about me behind my back about how i dress but that was last year and i couldnt care less about it now but i just want these 2 girls to get lost and leave me and my best friend alone.

Im so dreading tomorrow incase they tell me they dont wanna be my friend anymore. If they do say that to me then how can i act cool and pretend i dont care? Please no stupid answers cause im really upset right now.

Answer 1

The same thing kinda happened to me. My friend, who is very sensitive and has a low self esteem, thought I was mad at her one day because I was upset about something and didn't feel like talking about it to her, or anyone else(because I don't trust anyone) and then she thought I was mad at her and told all of my other friends. Long story short, all of my friends end up ganging up on me after school in the bathroom and were screaming at me about how I'm always mad at my one friend. But I was never mad at her!

Things will get better. You did nothing wrong. You had a reason to stay home, because you were sick. Tell the girl that tomorrow in school. And if she still gives you attitude, then you know that she isn't worth it. Try to stay away from her. You don't need to be around girls who start drama. Trust me, I know.

Good Luck!

Answer 2

how did you get involved with some of these people?

if ur Best Friend says she doesn't want to be ur friend anymore say "why" but not like desperate then she will get the idea that you can do without her.when she says that then argue your case what is true what isn't.

im sorry but that is all i can think i can do to help......

message me and tell me what happened