I think im pregnant...im so scarred what my mom will say...but at the same time im so happy..what should i do?

Question

I think im pregnant...im so scarred what my mom will say...but at the same time im so happy..what should i do?

Answer 1

Find out if you are actually pregnant first before getting scared.

If you are pregnant, just sit your mother down calmly and tell her the truth.

Answer 2

at the end of the day, its your life and your mum should support you whatever your decision, she should be happy that your happy,.

you never know that your mum could also be happy for you, but

make sure that you are completely ready for the responsibilty of having a baby

but dont put off telling her for too long, or the waiting will just make you worry more,

good luck..

Answer 3

Better tell her so she can help you.Also file for child support, because you will probably get dumped soon.

Answer 4

I was in your shoes I thought my mum would kill me. She called me every name under the sun I've never heard her swear that much before and she also sugessted abortion.

But my partner now hubby was willing to support me through it all and once she got over her outbursts she herself started being clucky and started telling everyone she has a grandchild. My son is now 10 and she still spoils them rotten

I think the most important part is you have a partner that can prove to be responsible and let your mother blow her steam as it's going to be a huge shock. That is if you want to keep the baby  

Answer 5

It all depends on how old you are.

If you are a younger than 18,she will DEFINITELY  not be happy

Answer 6

take a test before you tell her

that way you know for sure

and you wont be spilling that your having s*x if you dont even turn up pregnant

unless you want to tell her you have s*x and think your pregnant.

hmmm.

Answer 7

I think she'd be even more upset finding out her daughter wanted this to happen.

Answer 8

im in the same situation but... i am not happy about it. just take a test... im about to take one so i know how wierd this is. but your mom has obviously been pg before. she knows what to expect. you dont. she can deffinatly help you.  

Answer 9

take a test so you know whether you're pregnant or not if you are then just tell her

Answer 10

How old are you?

Answer 11

Can you tell us your age? It might help a lot.  

Answer 12

how old are u?

Answer 13

You should tell her, maybe she will share your joy!!

If you are an upper-classman grad early and things will be great.

Congrats♥

Answer 14

First of all..you need to get off the computer and go purchase a pregnancy test to confirm your suspicions.

If the test is positive, you need to tell your mother.Nobody else can do it for you.You got yourself into this mess, so take responsibility.

If the test is negative, you need to use protection next time and perhaps educate yourself on safe s*x as well as the consequences of s*x.

Answer 15

I don't know how old you are, if you're under 16, I'd say this answer isn't really appropriate.  

But if you're older, then strangely enough, the fact that you are happy about it may make your mother feel better. I know a lot of people will disagree with me on this, but let me explain.

My daughter is 16, pregnant, and happy about it.  When I first found out, my biggest reaction was grief on her behalf. I felt sad that she would have to go through all the physical discomforts, the disapproval, the burden of becoming a mother while still in school, and the loss of her childhood.  I thought this would be a terrible experience for her. It may yet be, but as of now, she has enjoyed all the thrills of having a new life within her, just as most mothers would.  Like most pregnant women, she is looking forward to meeting her baby and has come up with a realistic plan for caring for him/her.

Her attitude has taken a big load off of my mind.  I am still not happy about it. I still have a lot of worries. I still think it was the wrong choice. But it WAS her choice, and she is not grieving over it, so I'm not either.  I have let her know that it's OK to share her joy with me. Does that make sense?

Since you're going to tell your mother anyway, you may as well let her know that you don't consider this the end of the world or the end of your life.  It might be some consolation for her.

Answer 16

Pregnancy is great and that fact your positive aout it is even better. You may not be so happy once youv'e found out you no longer can live your life as a normal teen anymore, at 2am feeds and when every 2nd person in the street gives you a disapproving stare cos you're young and have a baby (Personal experience and I'm not even female).

You will have to tell  your mom cos she is the only one that can help you, and ultimately if she loves you she will come around eventually. Also it is better to tell her sooner rather than later purely so she can help you take care of the medical side of things to make sure your baby has the best chance of being healthy.

Answer 17

Firstly, you need to find out for sure!  no point in worrying about something that may not even be so.  Get a test and find out.

If it's negative, you can stop worrying and start using protection in future, pregnancy is not the only thing you can get by having s*x, lots of STD's out there!

If you are, then, you will need to tell her, you will not be able to hide it forever, she is going to find out or see sooner or later.  It would be a lot easier to tell her now.  Yes she's going to get angry and probably shout and scream, but once that part is over I'm sure she will want to give you the love and support that you will need.  She's a mother and she will know how you will be feeling and how scared you will be.  After all she was pregnant herself at one time.

Whatever happens, Good Luck

Answer 18

Tell her, tell her as soon as you can....the sooner you tell her the better off things will go. If she does get mad at you(and prepare yourself. she might) it will be better if she hears it sooner than later. Trust me...it will just keep bothering you till you tell her.

I would suggest telling her when your dad is not around, then have your mom tell him. Unless you want to. That way, if he gets mad, your mom will be able to calm him down a little before he sees you.

It's good that you're happy. Baby's are a gift from God. They might not always come at the ideal time, but it's not their fault.

Trust in God. Pray...tell him all your troubles. It helps, seriously.