I think ive just been told by a 9 year old?

Question

Wow - I was just fighting with my 9 year old sister (Im 15) and suddenly she says "You pretend that you don't care-But you do and you're hurting inside"...Wow, that's completely true. When she said that I felt a bit naked. Do you think that other's can see through you more than you think?

Answer 1

Some people have an inborn ability to "read and analyze" what another person is feeling or thinking by sensing that person's behavior, body language, and intonation. Personally, I think those kinds of people are more well-rounded, interesting, and fun to be around, because they don't just have tunnel-vision into themselves.  

Answer 2

Oh d**n. Can I just applaud your sister for that?

Anyways, yes people can be so obvious they're transparent at times or all the time; it depends on your feelings and person.

Answer 3

i wouldnt worry about it

she is ur sister

an she is nine

Answer 4

Depends from who the advice comes from.

You guys were arguing your 9 year old sis would find any way out to win the argue.

If someone your age or older than you said it, you should take the advice cause they can really see what's going on, you know what i mean?

Answer 5

Out of the mouths of babes often times come the truth!

Kids are observant, especially to those they love deeply. So it isn't surprising your little sister can see right through you. Is it a bad thing? No. It means she cares enough about you to call you out when you're going to need it. And it means, you've got a friend for life when it comes to her.

Be grateful! She'll be your best ally in life now that you know just how well she DOES know ya!   :)

As for others seeing through you, if they know you well enough, of course they can. At times, even if they've just gone through the same things as you is a good way to have that extra insight.

Answer 6

are you kidding

Answer 7

She must be a very perceptive nine year old child.

In your defense.. life is a lot simpler when you're nine.  You deal with different pressures.. and you've got hormones.. that she is only beginning to develop.

Answer 8

the people who are closest to you can see right through you

Answer 9

hahaha thats hilarious.  don't let your sister own you like that dude

Answer 10

I think that most people who care about another person can read them more often than the other person knows.

Answer 11

Well you 2 have grown up together. She does have some insight into you...But she may know some things but not everything thing...

Answer 12

yea, I agree completely

little kids are way more perceptive than we think, they can tell when we are upset.

Answer 13

your going to take that from here? HIT HERE!

Answer 14

WOW!!! Your sister must be mature for her age to understand what you are feeling at 15!