I think my 15 y.o.son is spying on his mom. i nearly caught him.how should i confront him?

Question

2 nights ago,i came home from work early,and i saw my son hurriedly coming from the backyard late at night.i was curious and went there which was very dark and could see my wife from outside the window thru a gap in the blinds taking a shower. he cannot look me in the eye and looks really nervous during dinner that night. so what else might he be doing there at that moment. i felt bad knowing that he might be spying on his own mom and thinking of sexual thoughts,i felt mad at that time but i dont know how to confront him.my son is a loving and good boy,yet my suspicion may be wrong.what should i do?

Answer 1

hahahah sorry but spying on his mom..thats really weird... i think its time for the talk.

Answer 2

Think back to when you were 15 yrs old. If you had never seen a naked women, you probably were really curious. I'm sure he is too. If you haven't talked to him about s*x, or he hasn't had s*x education, now is the time for the talk. Even if he has had s*x ed in school, that still isn't like seeing a live nude woman. "mom" above had a good idea about books. Good luck.

Answer 3

it may not be a sexualy thing. he may just be curious about the female body. other kids are talking and he doesnt know what they are talking about. i would confront him. ask him if he needs to understand something and maybe have that talk or show him some tastful pictures.

Answer 4

dont just come out and say o y are you spying on your mother b/c like you said you suspicions could be wrong. but just ask him "hey son im just curious what where uyoudoin that night i say you in the backyard??.." and just see what he says...but do not accuse him b/c he will start to feel scared to tell or talk to you about anything.. you know. another thing dont tell your wife b/c she will proloy freak lol hope i helped