I think my best friend is secretly dating my ex...please help!?

Question

every time i hang out with both of them, i feel like im supervising. They play fight all the time and it gets annoying, I always try to stop them and when I finally do, after five minutes it happens again. They always flirt, he convinced her to kiss him or vice versa, whatever. And today they were "arguing" about some math thing and I heard him call her babe.... And to top things off, we all had a conversation about this, a few months ago.. they said they would tell me if they were dating and they didn't say anything to me. But I feel like she's hiding something from me, she won't let me see her phone, and usually she lets me.

I need to know what the h**l is going on, because it's driving me crazy.. I'd rather her tell me what's going on rather than hiding it...

can anyone help me? or tell me what you think..

thank you!

Answer 1

should it bother you if you already broke up with the guy?

yes, they seem like they are dating.

Answer 2

They are SO secretly dating, or at least crushing.

As hard as that is for you to hear it is BEYOND obvious.

The phone.

The babe.

The flirting.

The awkward feeling.

I am so sorry, but you need to have a serious chitchat with your bestie. And if she still isnt being honest ask to see her phone, tell her your signs, if she really cares for you, she'll spill.

Answer 3

i can tell u how to find out if something is going on. email me at [e-mail]  I found out my chic was cheating thru the cell phone. it cost a lil bit but its well worth it. (not the info, just the items to do it)